Ok, if you love a person a lot. And they mean everything to you and you know you can see this person as someone you spend the rest of your life with is it ok to have sex with them (religiously speaking) cause marriage is just kind of a ceremony and a piece of paper.
2006-06-11 20:49:14 · 13 answers · asked by jimhm3 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It is an individual problem for an individual solution. But do not land up in trouble under Criminal Laws of the land which differs from country to country.
2006-06-11 20:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage mean a lot, so when you get married there are some scriptures read for and its a symbol of the 2 coming together to be one,thus you are now blessed and may become fruitful / multiply(having chlidren) but sex before marriage is a sin according to the holy writtings.
2006-06-12 04:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by GNL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not the same.
Sex without marriage, is a sin,and the "love" you call will be for limited time.It is not Love, in most cases, it is lust. It turns to be an act just like animals.
The piece of paper as you call it, is the legal guard for the lady and a declaration to the society, that a new "brick" has been added to the strong building.
2006-06-12 03:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Abdulhaq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex was meant for man and woman. Actually your first sex partner was your (wife or husband. That's Y A woman bleeds on her first sexily act with a man. That means every sex partner. BUT, marriage is agreement between a man and woman and a promise to the Heavily Father Showing obedient onto the Lord.With out GOD in A relationship theirs no truly happiness !
2006-06-12 04:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by ms.black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, biblically it is wrong. If you can see yourself with that person, and love them unconditionally, you should get married. Marriage is a covenant that both of you make before God and each other. A piece of paper that is a commitment that is recognized be the state that your legally married. It is a choice you make and should never go back on. Wait till your married and then be fruitful and multiply.
2006-06-12 03:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by ughead02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a proven fact is that couples who 'test out the product' before getting married are 80% more likely to divorce. Waiting until your wedding night is a symbol of devotion to your spouse and your God that you have stood up to the temptation and waited until all of the ceremonies are over. I would wait, but it is between you, your lover, and your God.
2006-06-12 04:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premaital sex is moral or immoral act is totally dependent upon the person himsely. It is his choice to decide to have sex or not depending upon how much mature he is. But it will be wrong if he hides his premarital sex with his parner. since truth is truth it is going to open some day.
2006-06-12 03:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jaideep P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you go straight to hell just like all the gay people. After all, isn't that what the precious bible says? *snort*
2006-06-12 04:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Psychology 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gotta test the product
2006-06-12 03:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by gary g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wouldn't buy a car without a test drive would you?
2006-06-12 03:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by nickhardy007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋