I was invited to party in neighborhood......There was person I liked much and I wish to marry him,but he find another girl,and fall in love.He marry her and they have a little cute son...... I was devastated when I see them.....They are family,and I know how much they love each other.....But I am alone and I have fear I stay alone all my life ahead me......Probably it is a fanny fear,but I don t want to be alone.......And I wish to have a child too.......
2006-06-11 20:40:38 · 23 answers · asked by Danica O 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
All answers is great......Thank you all for support and I must put to voting for this question......
2006-06-12 14:41:53 · update #1
I wouldn't worry too much about it at this point. You are still very young and you have lots of time for that in your life. You just have to wait to find the right guy for you.
2006-06-11 20:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by melissa 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Obviously being around this guy hurts you so maybe keep your distance, he is out of the picture now, you have to stop thinking about him.
Now come on, there is someone out there for everyone, put a genuine effort into meeting someone. I think the internet is a great place to meet people, get to know the person really well and take a friend along to meet them the first time.
There are lots of sites to chat on. www.paltalk.com
etc.
If you play bridge, or other games you can get to know people online that way, use your google search engine and get going on your own life.
2006-06-11 22:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sam k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and have a life instead of feeling sorry for yourself.. you're not the only one to miss out on opportunities in life, its what you do about them that counts...
Pick your chin off the floor and smarten your self up.. make some one want you.. it works for every one else in the world.. why should you be any different? Sorry to sound harsh, but you need to buck your idea's up and stop fretting over some thing that will never be!!
2006-06-11 21:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Hugh Jampton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE COURAGE. THERE IS HOPE.
Try to be yourself in front of men. Don't be like "You need to like me" kind of thing when you talking to them. Reinvent yourself. Go to the gym, learn some skills, wear presentable clothes, improve your communication skills then I'm sure along the way, you will meet Mr. Right.
Don't dwell on that fear of ending up being a spinster all you life. It will just paralyze your thoughts and keep you from being creative and beautiful woman. So, get up my friend and move on. There is life out there.
All the best.
2006-06-11 20:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... it must be sad to see someone u really like with another girl and having a baby :( but remmber that God have a plan for each of us so just wait yr turn and im sure u will be happy with someone who u deserve :) good luck and dont worry! I wana baby so much as well... so i bought furby :D
2006-06-11 21:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by Babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your fear....but you have to answer to your own question:you need to accept the fact that the person you love has moved on,got married and now even has kids.I know thats hard to do,but you need to get over this person and move on yourself.Only then will you be able to find a new love(and eventually you will,believe me)and have kids of your own...
Good luck to you....
2006-06-11 20:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by marjoleindnl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to get over this love then when you feel ready find a new person to share your life with, be brave there is someone that will be yours.
2006-06-11 20:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Just Thinking 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to go out there and find someone that does it for you... Or sleep with the first guy you meet and get pregnant...
2006-06-11 21:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up hun, i am alone also, but you being a woman you not be alone forever, i am a 43 year old man so my time i past you will meet someone before long and you will wonder why you asked thios question. good luk
2006-06-11 20:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by harrierzero1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look towards the future and get out there to meet the guy that's waiting for you to find him.
2006-06-11 20:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get your chance! if its not meant to be its not meant to be... and there's no good in u mopping over him! besides even if they did break up, he has baggage now in the form of a son! u'll find ur prince soon enough! think of how many single guys are out there thinking the same thing u r! good luck
2006-06-11 20:44:24 · answer #11 · answered by Gahhhhhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋