i do have a great body..well,guys will keep looking at my sexy buts,and my cute breast(they think like that..)and when i was in high school,they called my as a sex symbol..and i'm not very comfortable with that,and lost my confident when walking in front of boys..act..i'm too shy..wat can i do?
2006-06-11 20:40:32 · 3 answers · asked by myluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore what the guys are
preoccupied with, and get curious enough to find out what they are like inside.
Then, as if by magic, the guys will focus more on your own inner person, and so the pressure will be taken off of "how you look". Right now, your concern about how you look is getting in the way of how you act.
I IM'd with a Belgian lady once, who suddenly wanted to share her picture with me, for her 29th birthday. She said that she lives alone and doesn't even date, because she is too beautiful - looking
and that her looks keep other people from seeing the rest of her.
Yes, she turned out to have a great face, not much body, and I don't know why she made such a big deal out of it. Apparently, she couldn't see the rest of herself, either.
People are not necessarily thinking what you think they are thinking. Our limitations about this are mostly self-imposed and we are hypnotized by our self-image, which is always distored in some sense.
2006-06-11 20:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it! I used to be like you, but I'm a little older now. Don't quite get the same reaction. So be proud of yourself.
2006-06-12 03:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Billy Bob Dingleberry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get laid then you wont be so shy
2006-06-12 03:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋