if your in a relationship with a guy you've wanted for 8 yrs. who's you're brothers best friend, who's 3 years older than you are, and you finally get it, but you can't show how you feel, is that bad?how do u change? your feelings, emotions it's like they can't seem to come out, what do you do? how can you start showing those feelings? because you really really want to, it's just your embarrassed you'll look like a fool, so how do you change? and why do i feel this way?
2006-06-11 19:29:53 · 8 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's fear of the unknown and being ridiculed, rejected or your feeling hurt. That will go away with age and time and experience.
2006-06-11 19:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read what these people had to say, but I don't think you can just change the person you are, and it's not worth it, I like you for who you are. Maybe I make a big deal about this stuff sometimes, but it's not worth you worrying about it. I want you to be able to relax and get what you want, I'm making you worry about me too much. It's my mistake and I'm sorry. I'm sure if the feelings are there and it's strong enough it will show itself over time. Remember you're perfect in my eyes, you can't screw up!
2006-06-12 02:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by kteji 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OKAY I'M CONFUSED HERE. ARE YOU OR ARE YOU NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GUY YOU HAVE WANTED FOR THE LAST EIGHT YEARS!?
IF YOU ARE THEN YOU HAD BETTER STOP BEING EMBARRASED AND START SHOWING YOUR FEELINGS BEFORE HE STARTS TO THINK THAT YOU DON'T REALLY WANT HIM AND HE MOVES ON TO SOMEONE ELSE WHO IS NOT AFRAID TO SHOW HER LOVE.
I UNDERSTAND BEING TIMID, BUT IF YOU TAKE THAT TIMIDNESS TOO FAR THEN YOU WILL LOSE OUT ON A GOOD THING. YOU CAN BE SHY BUT LET YOUR FEELINGS BE KNOWN. I MEAN YOU HAVE WAITED 8 FREAKING YEARS AND YOU'RE NOW AFRAID TO LOOK LIKE A FOOL?
IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE TO ME. ARE YOU NOT WITH HIM? IF YOU'RE NOT WITH HIM, THEN I CAN UNDERSTAND YOU BEING AFRAID TO TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. BUT IF YOU ARE WITH HIM, WHATS THE BEEF?
GOOD LUCK AND SHOW HIM HOW YOU FEEL, BEFORE YOU LOSE HIM.
2006-06-12 02:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're fine there is nothing wrong with you or those feelings. you shouldn't try to change yourself no matter what. hey this guy knows you and I'm pretty sure he likes you for who you are now not for who you can change into. and also those silly little things you think are foolish he may think are cute. my advise to you is don't try too hard and just be yourself sweetie.
2006-06-12 02:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him at first then start slipping in smiles then one day take a walk when you see him outside and say hey whats up come over here and then you have to tell him that you know a girl that likes him your actually not lieng kuz its you
2006-06-12 02:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it one step at a time shawty....the more you force things to happen the more they will fall apart...so give yourself time....this all doesnt have to come about over night ya know....slower is better gives less room for mistakes...it will evently all come naturally because you will start getting more comfortable with them...ya know....best wishes
2006-06-12 02:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by CANDY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets go of yourself,be in the rhythm,flow with vibe and catch the virus of love and spread it,just lets go
2006-06-12 02:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by rubzebred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your afraid of something possibly intimacy. Turn and face it and conquer it.
2006-06-12 02:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋