ok.......well, whenever i talk 2 ppl on messenger and what not, everything goes well, good conversation, all the fun stuff....but when they ask if i have a pic, and i show them, they either dont say sh*t, or theyre like "gotta go" and all that.....i know that im not beautiful, but i know im not hideous either....or like when i tell guys that im big boned, they dont wanna talk.....what should i do?? should i NOT show them a pic and lie about how i look?
2006-06-11 19:18:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol.........well, its not that the only way i can meet ppl is on the net.....im kind of a p*ssy when it comes 2 meeting ppl. im shy, and i feel "safe" when im talking on the net; as in ill never mee them anyway...4 some reason, i just cant go up 2 people and be like...blah, blah, blah, u know?? thats why i barely have any friends...lol
2006-06-11 19:27:42 · update #1
First, stop trying to meet people on the internet. This is not the best place to meet a significant other.
Secondly, not everyone will like you. Wait until you find the right person.
2006-06-11 19:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by dsarahb4327 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't matter to people who aren't superficial.
To some people, looks are all that matters and they have an ideal picture of someone in their mind.
To some of those people, you are the most attractive girl in the world, and to some, you are not.
Don't let it get to you.
Find someone who has a mutual interest (such as music, movies, etc) and go from there. When talking to someone that you feel has a genuine interest in you, then go ahead and show them your picture. No need to lie, but no need to waste time with people who only have one thing on their mind.
2006-06-11 19:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by chia_vampire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post the picture of course your beautiful, people all have person likes and dislikes, let them see you may just be the one of there dreams, hey I like bald guys, have dating heavy set,all kinds, takes personality and that spark you feel when you meet them, chemistry...why beyond skin deep!!! You just need to wait for a real person, you haven't meet them yet hang on beautiful!
NEVER lie, they will but you should never, you should be very proud of yourself for going online its a tough world out there and lots of cruel people, don't listen to them your looking for mr wonderful and you will find him!
2006-06-11 19:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by marez2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep sending the pic's out. If they like you for who you are then you found someone. Looks don't always matter. Beauty IS only skin deep.
2006-06-11 19:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by secretagentman466 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop sending ur pix over d net. u dont know wat these peepz r capable of.
u need 2 have frends & not cyber ones coz everyone u meet on d net r fake.. nothing is real there. believe me!
its not always abt looks.. i dont go 4 looks when i meet new frends.. its always abt how i feel 2wards them.. 1st impressions & that feeling like u've known each other 4 centuries..
real peepz never look @ d outside appearance.. wat's impt is how they r inside out
2006-06-11 20:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 thing don't lie, nothing can be built on it. Send the pics you will meet someone eventually who find you to be just there type.
2006-06-11 19:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by dae_dae_damien 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately in human nature you do find those people who are like that. Trust me I've been there. What you have to remember is that if they feel that way about your looks you don't need them.
2006-06-11 19:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by real_sweetheart_76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets put it this way honey....my dude is skinnier than a twig and i am a big boned gurl ya know.....he loves me for every inch of my body and tells me everyday...so trust me darling looks dont matter....alot of guys want that perfect body chick...but guess what they end up with....someone whom cheats on them and is gunna treat them like crap ya know...you are a beautiful gurl all the way around honey...and you gotta show that to people...best wishes...
2006-06-11 19:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by CANDY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it good that you are honest and you should stay that way the jerk that talk to you are very unmature and there are a lot of people that way. i think you should keep showing your picture but you should make them shoe there picture first then you can decide if you want to show your.
2006-06-11 19:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, it must suck to be you, if the only way you can meet people in thru the net then, shesh! i say find you a ugly man and make you some beautiful babies, cause you know what they say...
2006-06-11 19:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by shakethecookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋