My girlfriend said that she wants to take a break or just end things for a while because she doesnt feel the same way about me anymore. What can I or what should I do because Im still crazy for her?
2006-06-11 18:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You probably will still be crazy for her because you just broke up, but time is the ultimate healer. I could tell you this much though, trying to win her heart back, by constantly badgering her and "stalking" her, and invading her personal space...is only going to push her away. If she wants to take a break, let her....maybe she has some things to think about..it happens..give her the time and space that she needs, once she knows how you feel, there is no need to constantly remind her.
Good luck
2006-06-11 18:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by micheypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well fobsquad, I'm sorry to be the one to break it to you, but if she's already told you that's what she wants, then it would be in your best interests to respect her decision. Because the minute you come around her acting like a lost puppy looking for it's owner, then that's just going to make YOU look like a desperate, pathetic loser. And believe me, that's not an attractive quality that women seek in men.
If you truly want her back, you should give her space for the most part, but if you still keep in contact, you might want to remind her (in a subtle way!) of the good times you've both had, and maybe also treat her the BEST you possibly can. Whatever she fell in love with in you the first time around would most likely be what will keep her interested in you.
And if that still doesn't work, then I'm outta ideas. But trust me, there are plenty other girls in this world looking for a nice, decent guy. Good luck.
2006-06-12 01:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Xahaira-66- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and giver her somtime but continue to be her friend show her how much you do still care and talk with her communtication is the best medicine a relationship could ever have try not to be to pushy though because it may push her even farther away
2006-06-12 01:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by buffy18611 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a new. If this is what she wants you have to let her get space. After about a week she'll realize how much she loves you and wants to be with you. But for know you gotta let it burn.
2006-06-12 01:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break down annd tell her if u that crazy u might as well say u love her tell her show it llet her know that if u lose her that u would never get over yourself.Make her fall back in love with with u give what you think she would like show u love her
2006-06-12 01:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by ladypinkpather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her see whats out there, i know it is easier to be said and done. i dont want to sound tacky but if you love someone set that person free, if that person comes back then that person is yours to keep. give her space and time to think things through.
it wouldnt be easy, trust me ive been there. but once things get better.. its all worth it.
2006-06-12 01:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by doreajean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a chance of telling her in brief about your feelings
2006-06-12 01:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by paathu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is not mutch hope just move on
2006-06-12 01:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by cool guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋