I love my bf and dating for 3 years. I had a night stand with some one a week ago. I feel bad. Should I tell my bf ?
2006-06-11 17:43:35 · 27 answers · asked by ♥Gilmore♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have been with this guy for three years, you are practically married. would it be ok if he did it. would you want to know, what would you do if he did it to you, what do you think he will do or say. however he will react you have to be ready for it.you caused this and you should be ready for anything. just a word of wisedom. sometimes a women has to take a few things to her grave and maybe this should be one of them.good luck.
2006-06-11 17:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 6 · 10⤊ 2⤋
My advise to you is yes you should tell him.You can tell him it was a mistake and your really sorry. A "good" relationship cannot be built on a rocky foundation. A good relationship is built on trust that builds love and respect for each other. The longer you wait the more the dis trust builds.
Good luck to you
Mike
2006-06-12 00:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by mderita@snet.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I as a man would accept a 1-time mistake on your part regarding a 1-nite stand...but next time I wouldn't stand for it. If he loves you, he'll be o.k., 3 years is a looooooong time,so it is worth it to be honest.
2006-06-12 01:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'm willing to bet the people calling you a whore and other names aren't as perfect as they'd have you believe. Second, do you think telling him will make him feel better or just you? If you don't think it will make him feel better. I'd hold that thought.
2006-06-12 00:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. But, I agree with the guy who wrote that the better question to answer for yourself is why you did it. Also, would you do it again? Good luck in your decision and nevermind these people who have no real way to express themselves other than to throw out the 'whore' crap.
2006-06-12 00:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because if you love him then you shouldn't want to keep secrets from him. You wont feel right about it until you do because it will always be something you're hiding. Also, it could be worse if somehow he'd find out on his own. You shouldn't have to hide it because you should trust him enough to believe he can forgive you for it.
2006-06-12 00:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by cornbreadman2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love your bf then you should tell him just let him know that what u did not to be mad or crazy if u have a good relation ship just tell him and see how thing r my thought
2006-06-12 01:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by jason s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Unless you want out. Why did you do it? That's a bigger question than should you tell your BF. It's sad, Good luck.
2006-06-12 00:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to permanently damage the trust he has in you, then tell him.
Also, you just want to tell him to relieve your own guilt. You cheat on him, now you want to tell him (and hurt him) so you don't feel guilty. How selfish is that?
2006-06-12 00:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Buddhist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you slut ..
Do you really want to be that kind of girl??? IF he cheated on you what would u want him to do? THink really hard about that and then do it..
You should not be with him if you are not ready to committ to him
2006-06-12 00:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋