Yesterday i had the perfect day, I went fishing in the morning, My dad and i went into minneapolis to try out new golf clubs and go car shopping. We pretty much messed around all day. I had the best day in a long time. Then that night my girlfriends friend called me and pretty much said she is cheating on me. I want to make sure she doesnt mess with me like that again, even after ruining my perfect day. How should i break up with her to let her know i am not to be cheated on.
2006-06-11 17:42:59 · 12 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like to me that she wants you to break up with her. You don't deserve someone who would cheat on you. I am so sorry. I'm sure that it hurts. Go to your dad. Sounds like you two are buddies and he can give you advice. That's cool. Dump that girl.
2006-06-11 17:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by beckini 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I can see how that would hUrt, but don't let it spoil the wonderful day with Ur dad.
And how can u be sure her friend is telling you the true, may be she's just saying that because like either likes u for herself or because she doesn't like u
Did u talk to ur girlfriend about the news u got from her friend?
U should get the two girls together and talk about this b 4 u breakup with her. And if it turns out that she did cheated on you then u I guess u have to decide if u willing to forgive& forget or end it
2006-06-12 00:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first make sure that her friend is right. She may of mistaken or lied (especially if she likes u too) some girls are just messed up like that.
If you are going to break up with her, first start by telling her how she's hurting you when she's cheating on you. Then tell her you're not the sleezy type of guy to put up with that.
Still, make sure you have your facts straight, especially if this doesn't seem like something your girlfriend would do to you.
2006-06-12 00:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way is to get your facts right and to confront her. Watch for her reaction. Then and only then do you talk about what you want to do. It can go both ways for you... she stays or she goes. That's the only way. If you pussyfoot around, you might as well accept that she is cheating you.
2006-06-12 00:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by btiger75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say,'I'm not going to cheated by you ever again! By the way,I want break up with you.'
2006-06-12 00:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her whats going on tell her how you are feeling and say look at this point in my life I dont think we should be seeing each other at the moment no one deserves to be cheated on
2006-06-12 00:45:05 · answer #6 · answered by kaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
directly just say look you cheated and we're done make sure it comes off clear so there is no mistake about what is said
2006-06-12 00:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by snowboarder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i'm sorry but this is'nt working out im not cheating on you but i just wont us to be friends shell uderstand if she really hates you but someones is waiting 4 you i just know it
2006-06-12 00:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by Nellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her "I'm breaking up with you cuz you did a horrible thing to me that I won't be able to forgive you, and you ruined my day as well. Thanks a lot."
I wouldn't be nice, I'd be furious
2006-06-12 00:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a tantrum and tell her she smokes the wong.
2006-06-12 00:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋