One of my closest friends has a boyfriend of 3 years, but they live about 1.5 hours away. I'm interested in one of our mutual friends (he just so happens to be my best friend) but everytime that she is around with us, she is so flirtacious with him and all other guys, it's like she has to be next to them. If I didn't know her, I would have never guessed that she has a boyfriend. I am not a competitive person but she does this to everyone. Should I say something or "get in the race" so to speak?
2006-06-11 17:29:06 · 5 answers · asked by Whit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U should talk with her if this is bothering u. She may not know she's doing this. So u should tell her she's going to far, and if after telling her and she keeps doing it then I guess u should join in and give her a run for it
2006-06-11 17:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, i had the same problem just don't do what i did i drop the boy knowing that he really like i regreted that.pull her to the side and yes i know u a flirt but don't with mines yes you a good friend but i would hate to have go there with you over respect not a man. we both r friends show me the same type of respect i would show you. andif you think you can't do so then we don't need to be friends. because i can't have you flirting with every guy i come in contact with it's disrespectful and i'm not dealing with it.
2006-06-11 17:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkinsticks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she misses being around you all and just gets carried away when she sees everyone.
you could ask her how she's getting on with her boyfriend but I don't think there's much you can do except stop including her in your group.
2006-06-11 18:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K FIRST YOU SHOULD GO SOMEWHERE ALONE WITH HIM. BUT IF THAT DOESN'T WORK YOU SHOULD LEAP AT HIM BUT SLOWLY. WHERE SOMETHING SEXY BUT NOT SLUTTY OR TOO REVEALING. THEN FLIRT WITH HIM. CUDDLE WITH HIM. PUT YOUR HEAD ON HIS SHOULDER. THEN YOU WERE A SHORT SLEEVE SHIRT ON A BREEZY DAY. LEAVE YOU JACKET AT HOME PURPOSELY, ASK HIM TO WALK TO THE CORNER STORE OR SOMETHING. IF HE IS WEARING A JACKET WHEN YOU GET OUT SIDE SAY, "ITS COLD!" IF HE DOESN'T OFFER YOU HIS JACKET ASK FOR IT. THEN ON THE WAY TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL.
THEN IF YOU TWO GET TOGETHER. TELL YOUR FRIEND TO BACK OFF. IT WORKS FOR ME.
2006-06-11 17:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should let your friend know how u feel tell her hey look i like him and i feel like your flirting with him all the time when were around him and go from there
2006-06-11 17:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋