why wont he stop coming around?

Question

my x will not stop coming around he has a new life with some one and i mean them 2 were not 2 gether a good 6 months he had started calling me wanting us 2 b 2gether while he is still with her they have a child 2gether and he even tells me he still loves me and has 2 have me in his life what keeps him coming around and could he really be in something thats not all that easy 2 get out of now he tells me hes going to leave but he was honest enuff 2 say he did not know when

Answer 1

Well, he keeps coming around because ur allowing him to, he sounds like he wants to have his cake& eat it too, I mean he's living someone who he has a child with and comes to u, tells u that he still loves and wants u.

And I have a feeling u still want him ( even thought he has a family) with another woman.

U ask if he could be in something that he can not get out of( WHAT?) he can't get out of being a father,


Ok think about this if u would

Ur the girl he's living with u have a child with him, and whule ur home with the child and loving him thinking that things are good but he keeps going over to his ex telling her he stil loves her and wants to be with her and that he may have gotten into something he can't get out of.

then he comes to u and tell u this( wouldn't u feel betrayed) that while u didn't know that the whole time u and ur baby was who he didn't want to be with and he rather be with his ex?

It would hurt wouldn't it?

See sometimes u have do think deep about things like tis, u have to sometimes put urself in the other persons shoes.

Do u really want to be with a guy who's ready to leave his family? May be he will do the same toy u because he see something he looks at as better then he will leave u

So think about it b 4 u make room for him to come back.

Answer 2

I reported you for not following the rules.

Answer 3

he only keeps coming around is cus you let him , if you want him to stop comeing around then stop him