What should i do if i like an older woman?
im going 2 be 20 and she is around 30. im a student worker and she is a counselor. we work in a college. should i avoid this feeling or let her know? this has been in my mind so can some1 help me? what to do?
2006-06-11 16:47:29 · 12 answers · asked by Nas G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out. as long as you're legal then ur up for grabs. age is nothing but a # (as long as both numbers r over 18). and @ 30 is when we women look to have a little fun!
2006-06-11 16:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by sickntyred 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy right now who's 10 year's younger then me. Sometimes I feel he may have an interest in me but because of the age difference he won't ask me out. I sooo wish he would, the age difference wouldn't matter to me at all. She may like you also but doesn't think you're interested. I would say since you're the guy, you should try to get a feeling for whether she has an interest in you. If you think she might, then go for it, and forget the age difference!!!! Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-11 23:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Maryanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it...look at Ashton and Demi...it is okay...why let age be the determining factor, follow your heart. I dated a man who was 24 and I was 34 and we got along very well and had hot times together....He has no regrets today except that he wishes he did not have the age hang-ups that he had when he was with me...And I have no regrets at all...and I did not hide his age from anyone...
2006-06-11 23:55:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jade J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you one thing -- look at Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore! He's in his 20s and she's in her 40s.
I don't see anything wrong with it, but she might... get to know her more, let her see who you really are, spend more time with her. Maybe get a few friends from your work together and include her along to go and do something!
2006-06-11 23:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need extensive psychotherapy to cure this horrible disease you have contracted. Men should never be interested in older women. For lack of any other description, that's gross.
2006-06-11 23:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by supermontage1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!! I really mean that. Your not the first to feel this way and you won't be the last. There is nothing wrong with it.
2006-06-11 23:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id make sure she Evin remotely feels the same way before i embarrassed my self ! use a back channel first! meaning get somebody else too check it out
2006-06-11 23:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and enjoy it.
You are both adults.
You both know what to do!
2006-06-11 23:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Aritmentor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nas. G, i know its hard to u, n u know,,, its happen with me to, my boyfren is elder ratehr than me,,,, many people say it can't be good "relationship". But,,, please believe it in uR heart just do wad uR haert say...........
OK,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,enjoy it.........
thats da reality.... U LOVE HERS
So...GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont hear wad people talk about
2006-06-12 00:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by PW,,, shine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant help who u like. if u like her go for it!
2006-06-11 23:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋