me and this guy have been knowing each other for a year, when we met
he gave me the impression that he was a asshole, later one this year he told me he really wants a relationship with a girl that has wife potential. when this guy calls me i would always make up an excuse that i was always busy to spend time with him i failed to acknowledge the fact that he was trying fast as he called the faster i got him off the phone well he called one day put his cards on the table and i adore him for that i have gotten really close to him and it just feels so right , he also says the same thing but the ony thing is i do not have a car to come and see him when i please he has to come and get me . i will have a car soon in about a month but he thinks that all i want to do is use him i have pored out my feelings to this guy i think i am love with him but he sees different he thinks i want him for his money which is not true what should i do i am attached and it is hard to let him go !!
2006-06-11 16:45:51 · 6 answers · asked by soawake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you are upfront and honest with someone about your situation, they have 2 choices, deal with it, or not. If he knows your situation, and knows that you care about him and he feels the same, he'll wait it out! Anyone worth it, will. If he gets pissed about it, then he isn't worth your time!
2006-06-11 16:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not believe you then thats on him. You should keep trying to make him realize how you feel and how much you love him. Whenever you do get your car,then you can prove him wrong. If he does not belive you at that point then you can take the next step.
2006-06-11 23:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Aaliyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him room untill you have a car and then play hard to get he'll love it
2006-06-11 23:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him you could care less about his money by doing things that dont require money, like going for walks or saving your money and buying him dinner or taking him out, borrow afriends car and take him out, surprize him for a change by driving up wit ha car and take him out of town, ifhe wants to pay dont let him. good luck
2006-06-11 23:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him room, while doing whatever you can to earn his trust in you.
2006-06-11 23:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by Volleyball Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help him if he needs
2006-06-11 23:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by ais 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋