or with a friend that you've already taken it past the friendship level.
2006-06-11 16:32:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard initially to be good friends with someone that you have been intimate with, ie cuddling, kissing, holding hands, etc.
I have learned through the years that you should never jump into things too quickly. Be friends for a bit and then decide if you want to take it to the next level. I made the mistake of becoming intimate only after the first date and then having things turn bad a week later when the other person decides they are not attracted to you anymore. And then you get hurt.
After a while that person and I resumed a friendship after the pain went away and now we are good friends.
I know you want to be intimate because youre excited that the other person really likes you but take it slow..that way after a while you know whether to just be friends or take it to the next level. If you like someone more than a friend but you know they dont like you the same way then you must deal with it..and decide whether you can still be friends without getting jealousy every time they get in a relationship.
Good luck!
2006-06-11 16:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have found it very difficult to be just friends with someone that I really like more than a friend. I just cant help but develop more intense feelings. Eventually it gets to a breaking point to where I just cant take it anymore.
If I still can, I will try to walk away from the friendship. It is just super hard to have someone that you want or even love right there in front of you and not try to take to the next level.
So I guess what I am trying to say is that it is easier to just not be friends. But if you are the go getter type make sure you at least make an attempt to get what you want.
Remember, no regrets.
2006-06-11 23:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is your friend , you should really think if it is worth possibly damaging a friendship.Not to say that it will have a negative ending ,if Any. But if Ur heart says yes then go for it. You only live once.
2006-06-11 23:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by *FLIRTACIOUS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't have the same feelings then yes, it's easier to not be friends until you can get over those feelings.
2006-06-11 23:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it is easier not to be a friend to the person you like.
2006-06-11 23:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with either one how ever second one it will be a lil hard
2006-06-11 23:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by nax_alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT BE ALWAYS FRIEND SO THAT U CAN LOVE HIM
2006-06-11 23:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-11 23:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋