A good portion of my friends I know of have had sex already. I only 20 and never have had sex yet. I constantly am thinking about and wanting to have sex though. What can I do? I feel bad since I haven't found Miss right or have had sex yet. I constantly think of sex and wish I had a girl to have sex with. It just sounds so good to have sex. What do I do and how can I get over the thought of wanting sex? Is anything out there for me to do??
2006-06-11 16:07:14 · 9 answers · asked by jacoboctober11 4 in Health ➔ Other - Health
you are doing wonderful, just wait to share that first experience with your new wife on your wedding night. it will be well worth the wait.
2006-06-11 16:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, sex isn't the only thing in the world. Just being with a girl you love is a exhillarating experience. Why not masturbate to get over such urges. Make friends with a lot of girls and find miss right. Pls don't do something silly like goin to a slut.
2006-06-11 23:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by vinduda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-11 23:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by crao_craz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to be curious and want to try it out. Don't rush it though. It will be better when you are ready and with someone you love. Self gratification can help relieve the physical tension. As far as the constant thinking about it - do your best to stay busy and think of other things to help. Good luck!
2006-06-11 23:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Toni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I am more attracted to virgins. I think its really a sign of maturity and an all around good guy. Just wait for your wife, it will be more special that way.
2006-06-11 23:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by mfb0913 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting a girlfriend will help
be choosy because at 20 you have plenty of time, despite what your hormones are telling you.
2006-06-11 23:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is to wait for the right time.. for sure it will be a good gift to your wife to be that she will be the first one to feel how much you love her..
2006-06-11 23:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by jodzki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex when you think that it is the right time
2006-06-11 23:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by It's MEEEE!!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha calm down
sex will come soon enough...
once you stop looking for it... it will find you...
2006-06-11 23:47:01 · answer #9 · answered by Miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋