okay..my bf is like never serious hes always trying to be funny but i always try to talk to him or get my friends to talk to him to see if he really loves me...but i really want to take out relationship to the next level and its so hard to talk to him, its summer vacation and we never hangout but i really truly like him! please help me we have been dating for about..5 months now and i really want to get a little more close!
2006-06-11 16:01:54 · 9 answers · asked by KT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give al;ot of little hints like grabbing his penis or playing with it or while he's over your house start playing with you self it will heat things up.
2006-06-11 16:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to break it to you, but it sounds like this boy isn't really serious about you. Don't push him. Take a break from harrassing him and just leave him alone. Did it ever hit you that maybe he doesn't take it to the next level, cuz you're chasing him too aggressively.
Sometimes guys like to be the aggressive ones. If I was a guy, I wouldn't want my chick hounding me. I'd like to chase her. And as a chick, I don't chase boys. Never have.
Seriously tho, take a break and pretend it's no big thing and maybe, just maybe he'll want to take it to the next level. Good luck and take it easy. If he doesn't get a clue, then move on to a guy who does take you seriously. It sounds like too soon for him to LOVE you. That's a big thing you know. I don't think you love him yet either. Who knows.
2006-06-11 16:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant make him move to the next level. he wont like it if u push him to do it. and do not send ur friends to talk to him. thats a no no. i say, if talking to him doesnt work, give him a lil' bit of his own medicine at times and maybe give him the cold shoulder every now and again till he comes to talk to u. just dont do it too much, or it wont be pretty.
2006-06-11 16:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u have to be serious and then ask him straight up say do u really love me and then if he laughs after he says yes then break up but if he says yes and dont laugh then next step
2006-06-11 16:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sniper1409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I think that you should tell him how you feel and...aboslutely more sex! :)) Good luck!
2006-06-11 16:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by iluv_19990 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel
2006-06-11 16:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by lillexis979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it and if he really likes you he'll agree.
2006-06-11 16:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Arizona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for the gold....you know what i mean,
2006-06-11 16:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't.
2006-06-11 16:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋