I am in such deep grief and I need someone to talk to. Where can I go online to talk to someone who'll listen

Question

One year ago yesterday, my son and my nephew, my sister's son, were in a wreck. My son was driving. My nephew was killed. Since then, my entire family has fallen apart. My kids won't speak to me for reasons involving my mother, who has a histrionic personality disorder. I have effectively ended communication with my mother. My sister won't speak to me. I live alone, and feel so completely alone. I can't stop crying and I hurt so badly inside. I don't have anyone in my life that I can trust with my pain and sorrow. I just want someone who is genuinely concerned about how I feel and will maybe help me sort through some of this process of grieving and accepting death.

Answer 1

This group has local support meetings for times of grieving. I visited it briefly after my mother passed away, and found the people to be very supportive. There are groups in many cities. Check the website below.

Answer 2

Yo ucan google grief counseling on line or support groups. I understand that it is sometimes easier for people to communicate openly on the computer however, it is not effective. You don't really know these people or if their advice is good. You should really look into going to a support group in your area or a counselor. support groups an be great help to you. You will be with a variety of people who can freely discuss how they have overcome the pain or how they are working through it.
You don't need to share unless you want to. It is an open forum with a leader there to help.

Answer 3

Honey I am so sorry for you but you don't need pity honey you need to rejoice.Praise God on high you are never alone never.Your family need to learn how not to forget but forgive.You will be fine don't you be down on yourself it's nothing you can do about it,what's done is done.You need to get out don't keep yourself shelterd up in the house even if you just take a walk around the block and enjoy the btful sights of the world hold your head up high your going to be fine.Pray honey and God will help you.Do you have any church friends you can talk to?Don't worry I'm going to put you on the prayer list.Hold on help is on the way!!!

Answer 4

I'm very sorry 4 ur loss and I am still trying to get through mine. I actually came on this site to talk about mine. I hope you get through yours as I am trying to do. My Uncle recently died on May 09,2006 & my Mother on May 31, 2006, how am I ever going to deal with this!? We were all very close, this is my Mothers brother. She was in the hospital dying of cancer at the time my Uncle died with complications of dialysis. This was such a shock! She just had surgery to remove a tumor off of her back to keep her from being paralyzed from the waist down. She was trying to get back on her feet from that when they found out she also had lung, bone & possibly breast cancer. She just got weaker and weaker and the cancer was getting stronger and stronger. The cancer grew 3 times bigger within 2 wks. of her surgery. This is something I never imagined in my worse nightmare would happen! We are all very distraught.

Answer 5

I do understand how you feel. You are grieving deeply still. My daughter committed suicide 4 yrs ago. Tragedies like death can really upset family relationships. Give it some time Time does help but the hurt never goes away. Hopefully your family will be able to be forgiving to you as you did nothing wrong

Answer 6

Make an appointment with a recommended counselor in your area. Meanwhile, find a book or other source which takes your through the SEVEN STAGES of grief. A friend led me through the seven stages after my divorce (which is a type of grief or loss.)

Here is a poem from the source listed below. I don't know how good her book is, but I ran a web search.

"Breathe..Breathe.. Oh grieving one.
this moment to the next...
into the deep, deep ocean of your grief

"Breathe..Breathe....Oh crying one...
through your pain..deep within your soul.....
into the deep, deep ocean of wide grief

"Breathe..into depths of ocean deep
breathing deeper, deeper, deeper...
Until breathing breathes you to back to life
to dance the dance of living...
once again on firm dry land...
with sun on face and warmth in heart

"and pain transformed and ready
now to dance the dance of living "

Answer 7

I really think you should be dealing wiht a professional here. If you look in the front of your phone book, there might be some hotline numbers there. You should think about calling one. They might be able to set you up with someone you could talk to in person. Try looking for grief counselors.

Answer 8

I am so sorry for your loss, I understand the pain you are feeling. I lost my son Hunter at 11 days of age to SIDS on November 28.2005. No one understands the pain. There are alot of decent support groups on line, you could try going to the bereaved families site. They helped me immensely....

If you need to chat just email me

Answer 9

I think you need professional help with this one . It is not your fault this happened,so you should not have to suffer. I hope you well in the future and that you keep the faith.Just put your trust in God and everything will be alright.

Answer 10

i for one will pray for you. look to god, and keep the faith