HI, I went on 3 or 4 dates with a guy, and we were having a great time, I dont think i did anything wrong. Then friday night he said he ws tierd and had to cancel our plans, and he would call me tommorrow. It is now sunday night, and I havnt heard from him. He seemed like such a nice respectful guy. Should I call him and see whats up, or should I consider myself rudely dumped (duped)? WHat do yall think?
2006-06-11 15:30:30 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave a message, if he doesn't answer, saying, "It seemed like we had a good time. And you seem like a nice guy. Are you interested in me?" If he doesn't answer that, you have your answer.
2006-06-11 15:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by John C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be thinking that he is going to fast and he is trying to slow the pace down? I'm not really sure because you have already gone on a few dates so this behaviour is puzzling?
Wait for 2 more days max and if no contact is established from his end, consider yourself free (dumped is such a harsh word). If he hasn't got enough respect to call you to even say 'hey, i think we should juse be friends' than he really isn't worth the time of day.
2006-06-11 22:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have only been on 3 or 4 dates, you don't want to seem to clingy by calling him and saying "Why didn't you call me?". If you were having a great time together there is probably a reason why he didn't call. Also, for a lot of guys, calling/being on the phone isn't a big deal. So he may have forgotten or had a very good reason why he didn't call.
Don't stare at the phone and wait for it to ring. (not saying you are, just you know what i mean)
2006-06-11 22:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 3 days and if he does not call you back, sadly he is not interested. Call him after the third day and see whats up, but always try to keep him as a friend if things go array.
2006-06-11 22:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by vegasgirl182005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself dumped. I hate that term but it may be accurate. And I don't suggest you're worth dumping. We don't know why he has become distant. When you're truly interested in someone, you call. You try to be with them. You enjoy their company and can't get enough. He sounds like backpeddling.
2006-06-11 22:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u seen the show NEXT. i mean really guys liked to be chased just like girls. but there are others. and when he does call make sure he gets the same treatment. dont let him think he runs the show.
2006-06-11 22:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by olin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be having problems give it some more time and if you dont hear from him soon...im sorry but hes probably moved on and to be honest you would need to move on also.
2006-06-11 22:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by ~Whitney~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duped? you said duped.
He isn't dumping you unless you were duped.
He got what he wanted and left... You were duped.
He can't dump you unless he picked you up.
And you can only be picked up if you wanted to be.
2006-06-11 22:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good girl like you I'll never dump you
2006-06-11 22:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys talked on regular basis then call him if not then wait a couple more days and call to see how is he doing and if everything is ok
2006-06-11 22:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by chigal79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋