2006-06-11 15:23:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhhhh hun to be honest you can not make a guy like you, just hang out with him more and get to know him and be glad u can be friends with him if nothing more. Maybe he'll come to his senses after you two get to know each other more.
2006-06-11 15:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by ~Whitney~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that he doesn't like you. Young boys can be real jerks during their teen years. Never knew what they had until they're older. As you can tell, I have personal experience in the subject.
The only thing you can really do is to keep after him every now and then, and see if he'll change his tune. Send him little notes and cards (such as valentine's day cards when the time comes). Boy's don't like to feel alone on that special day. (even if it was his own darn fault that he ended up alone on that day). lol
Invite him out to see a movie, but be clear that this is not a date. This is a friendship thing. Then at least you two will have an open line of communications, where things might, or might not, develop.
In the end though, if all of this fails, you may just have to accept the fact that he may never look at you in that way. Which will be his loss. Trust me on this one. If I could turn back time, and grab the girl that liked me in my younger years, I would have in a heart beat. I was just so stupid.
Anyway, I hope your luck is different and that he comes around to your way of thinking. Best of luck to you girl. ;-)
2006-06-11 15:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely, by now you must know that you can't make someone like you. And the right answer is as old as time. JUST BE YOURSELF, if he can't see how wonderful you are, you just don't need him. Move on.
Sure there's millions of ways to make him notice you. But to like you? I'm sure he already does. He probably doesn't know you are interested in more than a friendship. Bake a chocolate cake and buy a jug of milk. Invite him over for dessert, worked for me!
Keep it cool and simple, let him see a nice, sweet, different side of you.
2006-06-11 15:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you know I experienced that also, I really have a crush to this guy in our neighborhood and even one time he doesnt get a chance to like me, so I used my charisma,and my brain to catch some attention from him. I ignore him and to feel to him that im not interested on him anymore and then suddenly he turn it on to me, and he is begging for me. So just ignore him first do all your abilities if you have a talent impress him. And don't take the first step coz its really makes the guy turn you off, just wait and be patient. Good luck!
2006-06-11 15:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet_honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what ever you don't change yourself for him because a boy isn't worth changing for.If you are looking for a guy that respects you for who you are then he will have to like you for who you, not just who he likes. And if you find yourself getting nervous around him don't panic it's normal every girl gets crushes and most of them feel the same way you do.some of the girls do the wrong way and they try changing themselves for them just to let you know the way to find the right guy is to let them get to know the real you.
2006-06-11 15:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on your bike in a cute outfit and ride past his house totally ignoring him.. if a bike is not optional, go for a walk, walk the dog, but look totally cute, and uninterested! That'll get him!
2006-06-11 15:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by CarrieJean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone think like you. He might come around, he might not. Easiest thing to do is get a hobby or sport that takes all your time and forget about him. Then maybe you'll meet someone who likes you and therefore deserves you.
2006-06-11 15:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by shehawke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make him like you. just hang around him and become friends. his feelings might change as he's friends with you. Also, if you have a better relationship, it might be easier to talk about that (the I'm into you thing). Give it a try.
2006-06-11 15:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by Tommy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know what he likes, what hes like,become his friend when you learn more about him you grow as friends and maybe become more then friends like end up together for a very long time
2006-06-11 15:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by PunkPrincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have hobbies like running, rollarblading, walking your dog that get you seen being yourself. Have people over as much as you can so you have an excuse to have him join the party.
2006-06-11 15:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by aceranne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋