I have a BF, but our relationship is not that strong as before he is not here for 4 months and suddenly I met one guy offers me to work to his company and I already accept his offer and he gave me a lot of benefits. Before I say yes to his offer we used to go out together and he introduced me to his friends and collegue and says that he really likes me, so I was flattered and one night he ask me to sleep with him but honestly nothing happens to us its just I want to be with him and same he is to me, now my BF is coming I thought he will not coming back again and now how could I face him? I know I cheated on him even nothing happens to us to the guy. Tell me, do I have to tell him or just ignore it coz I know I will not do it again its just happen once. And I know my BF loves me so much. Pls some advice.
2006-06-11 15:07:42 · 12 answers · asked by Sweet_honey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are better to tell him then to lie to him or keep it from him, cause later on in the long run is going to come out and he will be mad at you....be honest....honesty will get you somewhere in life..where lying and cheating will get you nowhere.....think about it...Honestly is the answer
2006-06-11 15:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by agoodprsn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him, and see how he reacts. If he just gets angry and huffy with you, you know what signal that sends. He can't take a punch. See what he does, and that will tell you how your relationship REALLY is with him. Don't say it RIGHT as he walks through the door, though. Let him relax and be happy that he's home, get comfortable, then tell him completely and honestly of what happened while he was gone. :) It'll work out in time.
2006-06-11 17:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your BF left for 4 months?
He is gone ok!
He may say he loves you but unless he went to war he has been out and about.
Of course you have to go but don't tell him
Just go
2006-06-11 15:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love your boyfriend, then tell him you met someone else cos you thought he wasn't coming back...
If you do love your boyfriend, then tell him that you met someone, but nothing happened, and you want to be with only him...
Only you know what your true feelings are... You have to decide who is better for you... Either way, you need to do it soon...
2006-06-11 19:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was nothing then you say nothing.You love your man pick up where ya'll left all that's all the work ain't hard the boss ain't mean.
2006-06-11 15:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you sleep with him?If you didnt then you didnt cheat,but if you are or were thinking about it then maybe it is time to call an end to your relationship.
2006-06-11 15:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by pipparita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should.
2006-06-11 15:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want have the job or old BF.It is your choice.
2006-06-11 17:52:06 · answer #8 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YESSSSSSSSSSS!!tell him and be ready for the cosequences
2006-06-11 16:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by ultraman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2006-06-11 16:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋