he has been jumping my case about everything i just had surgery for having kidney stones and i was told to take it easy but he expects me to do everything with my 4 kids and his one kid we have together he hasnt been working and we are barely making it... i dont have money for nothing every bit of money i get goes to rent... what should i do
2006-06-11 15:02:35 · 14 answers · asked by Beth m 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First I would tell that "Mother ****** to go and to hell" and their are plenty of jobs if he has all that energy to have sex. I had a man that working and he still has no money so I said" bye to his loser ***. I am sorry that you do not have a good man. I have found myself one and I am happy. I hope that you will choose the right thing to do for your kids and yourself, because a woman deserves to be happy just once and so do all kids.
2006-06-11 15:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jason L 1 · 9⤊ 1⤋
It seems as if you have to worry about these kind of things alone. If you cant confide in him with these problems you may be having then tell him you guys have to come with some kind of plan to help each other out for each other and the kids, or if hes not okay with that ten tell him to hit the road. Your obviously going through enough. So if he cant be considerate to you and your wants and need then why should you when it comes to him?
2006-06-11 15:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Analina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to force the issue that you just had surgery. If he doesn't want to deal with the domestic duties then he needs to go out and get a job. Either do the man's job or the woman's job but don't expect you to do both and he needs to help out.
2006-06-11 15:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by rothe_jabbuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were you i would tell him how in the hell I'm supposed to take care of 4 kids when i just got out of the hospital. And he will probably give you a dumb answer. And since he's not helping around the house then he don't get no pussy.
2006-06-11 15:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Girl ... GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!! Is there anybody you can stay with besides this loser? This guy sounds abusive and not very nice. Please look into this as soon as possible - cuz those kids of yours, and you, need someone you can lean on when times are tough. I know this sounds easy, it's not ... it took me about 14 years to finally get the courage to leave my abusive loser.
Be Brave!
2006-06-11 15:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to even be with someone who doesn't love you enough to marry, share responsibilities and care about you? You need some help, both psychological and social service. Get it now.
2006-06-11 15:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by gitchergun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 kids and just had sugery? dump him, you dont deserve to be treated that way. how can he expect you to do everything when you just had sugery?tell him to hit the road, you can do better and deserve soooooooooooo much better than him. he is thinking of himself only. good luck.
2006-06-11 15:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way he wouldnt get nothing from me treating me like that u need to deal with that stuff now cause the longer u continue to let him do that to u he will
2006-06-11 15:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to do some thinking , you needed to take care of your self , if not for you for your kids.
2006-06-11 15:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of it now it isn't gonna get no better there's someone out there that'll treat ya good
2006-06-11 15:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by all eyez on me19962000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋