i really like this girl but she already has a boyfriend. we are always on the phone with each other and are always together even her boy friend knows he doesnt mind. we tell everyone we are just friends but its more han that but it cant cross certain limits cuase she has a boy firend. the girl knows that i like her and the boy treats her like a dogg what do i do? PLEASE HELP
2006-06-11 14:56:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wahtever you do , don't work on looking him look bad. Just work on making yourself look perfect for her. She has to come to her senses on her own. In time she will. Just keep doing what you are doing, that is why she feels comfortable talking to you and not her boyfriend. That is the real reason why girls (real girls!) have boyfriends to feel comfort in the arms of someone who she trusts, has fun with, and feels great to be around and that is why she follows him......in her case it seems to be you. So just be yourself and keep being her friend because her mind will change. Now if the guy gets abusive (emotionally or physically) since you say he treats her like ****....DON'T TALK BAD about her boyfriend...girels don't appreciate that....just defend her and you will do great.
2006-06-11 15:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could only be you who's feeling something more than a friendship between you two... maybe you are nothing more than a friend to the girl??.. if not what's holding her back from breaking up with her boyfriend and coming to you???... have you ever thought about that??.. you might be feeling that her boyfriend is treating her like dust.. but its something that you feel..if she has a boyfriend and she's still holding on to him please restrain from having feelings for her...you could have feelings for her.. its natural but don't let those develop.. if you face the reality you would succeed in getting rid of those feelings....just be a friend to her.. don't get caught to girls' tricks... she could be taking you on a nice ride.. I'm just saying or else could be just treating you purely as a friend...
2006-06-11 22:04:53 · answer #2 · answered by inDoubt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, this is not a good dynamic. The girl you like likes you for certain reasons and she likes her boyfriend for certain reasons, but she is not being fair to you, and she probably never will be as long as she is getting what she wants from both of you. Let her go. If she wants you for a boyfriend, let her come find you when she IS single.
2006-06-11 22:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her get her fill of the ****hole boyfriend. She will come straight to you if there is a connection there. Otherwise, dont step on someone elses mate. It could lead to major trouble. I know a guy who was murdered b/c he was seeing a girl that had a jelous boyfriend. Aint worth all that!
2006-06-11 22:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep waiting! Don't start a relationship off by doing something your not supposed to. If she cheats on her boyfriend to be with you, how do you know she won't cheat on you? You will never be able to fully trust her. What's a relationship without trust!
2006-06-11 22:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by 2hot2handle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really likes you too, but has a mental illness and a need to be treated mean. Back off a bit and see what happens, maybe she will come to her senses.
2006-06-11 22:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by gitchergun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well until she is no longer with the boyfriend there isn't much yo can do because she is off limits. At this point you can't do anything because it is up to her to decided what she wnats to do.
2006-06-12 11:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient.and be ready to give a shoulder to cry on and i think it will be soon,but hope u will not fall a victim too lik the present guy,since u do not know y he treats her lik a dogg
2006-06-11 22:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let nature run its course if ur meant to be together than ask her if she likes her boyfriend more than u and maybe she'll break up wit him and git wit u
2006-06-11 22:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by basketball_chick_94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her ... do NOT interfere with her feelings for her bf ... I think she will come to realize the same thing - that she can do better!
2006-06-11 22:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by Denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋