I live in Oklahoma. the Father of my baby is 19. I want to move in with him and get married but my mother says i cannot leave the house or get married till im 18 i was 17 3 weeks ago.
2006-06-11 14:32:28 · 17 answers · asked by Ashley B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If you stay with your parents you will have the love and support of your parents. You will be able to finish your education which will enable you to provide a stable future for you and your child.If your boyfriend truly loves, you he will want what is best for you and your son not what is best for just him.It is in your hands what type of future you would like for yourself. I hope you have the maturity to do the right thing.
2006-06-11 16:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by gussie 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to be at least 16 years old to be able to move in with your fiance and as you are now 17 and if you feel that you would have a good standard of living and enough money then I would say go for it but if you will not be able to afford the basic minimum then i would say no, do not move in with your boy friend
2006-06-11 21:46:21 · answer #2 · answered by mysr28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just turned 17. Obviously with 2 extremely young and immature parents, your mother wants to help that baby do well. Can't you think of the welfare of that baby before your own desires?
2006-06-11 21:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i am in the same kind of situation as you i just had a baby boy 3 weeks ago i am 17 and my boyfirend is 19 but he will be turning 20 in july but his parents want us to live together and get married , they want us to move in with them but i dont know we was gonna move out and live with his friend and his girl cause they are gettin a house and **** , but my father doesnt want me to move out or want me and my man to live together cause we are not married but i think that is bullshit, i am 17 years old i can move out , but you can move out there's nother your parents can do but it will be better for your baby to see both his parents together in the same house , but i hope all goes well for you mami congrats on your newborn baby
2006-06-11 21:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by Che's Wifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could petition the court to be legally emancipated; most court procedings take an extended time to complete. Be grateful you have a place to stay - I'm sure it is hard on your parents to have this situation put on them - they didn't ask you to get pregnant before you were old enough by law to leave home.
2006-06-11 21:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Taffy Saltwater 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know in some states having a child does change the rules. You can also file for emancipation from your parents, need to contact a lawyer for that. Although your local department of family/child services may have some answers for you.
2006-06-11 21:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by AOMGMC77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when the minor has a baby the parents no longer have jurisdiction. Call the courthouse and ask for the marriage license dept.
2006-06-11 21:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless your parents sign a paper saying that you can move out on your own, than you are stuck at home! Maybe you should take advantage of this time......save money so you are better off when you move out! Babies are very expensive!
2006-06-11 22:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by 2hot2handle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can leave at 17, baby or not.
2006-06-11 21:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by PoPo's Ho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you have a baby you are emancipated, that means you make your own decisions and make decisions for your baby as well. Stay strong and be smart.
2006-06-11 21:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by Terri M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋