This guy likes me and this other girl. Shes a complete whore and flirts with every guy in sight, but for some reason he still likes her. I've been told he likes me more, but how can i get him to completly forget about her, and get together with me?
2006-06-11 14:24:24 · 8 answers · asked by tmanix14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think u should stress over this because u can't make up his mind for him. u should just try to ask him out and if he says no just let it pass and meet other guys.
2006-06-11 14:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥SwEeTcHiCk♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to engage in many conversations with him as possible, that way he might find you interesting, and you can know a little more about him. See what his interest are. I"m not a guy but like my boyfriend says that guys like girls who have the same interest as they do. So figure out what he likes and stuff. In the end if you realize he's a total idiot don't waste your time, if he turns out to be a hell of a cool guy then go for it.
2006-06-11 21:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by tofu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite of the other girl being a whore or flirt he still likes her right? and you are the good girl...From the way I look at it you are just his "back up" and there is no way you could get him to forget her...What happened to your other suitors? if i were you I'd dump him and see if by doing that, hed still run after you..When that happens, you must set your conditions..thats the only way you could get him completely.
2006-06-11 21:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is forget about him and find someone else who is worthy of your affections. I had a friend who was in your situation. She got the boy, got pregnant, got married, has two kids with him and eight years after she got him, he slept with the other girl. (Who knows how long before she caught him) You need to find one who likes YOU and only YOU. You deserve no less.
2006-06-11 21:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
proubly cause he is thinking she would be a easier lay. she would proubly give it up no problem. best thing to do is walk away and 4 get him, i know easier said than done, but if he does sleep with her you cant trust him anyway...let him go. chances are he will come back and try and talk to you. dont chase him or let him know this bothers you, men thrive on that kind of attention. she might get all the attention but she wont get the respect.
2006-06-11 21:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question in a way, she's a complete whore. I think that might be your answer, she may not be putting out, she might be someone that's fun to be around. he can relax around. she likes to flirt, guys like to flirt. hey why wouldn't he like her more. I like her more too, she is out having fun and you are sitting here complaining about her. maybe you need to let your hair down a little and loosen up, not too loose but enuf to be fun around. gurls with lots of drama and always pi'ssing and moaning are no fun to be around. good luck........
2006-06-11 21:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question..
the problem for many girls that they don't understand the nature of the man. a man can love more than one woman.
but to answer your question of how to completly take him for yourself. then the answer is to let him do what he wants to do. and he will come back to you alone later.
2006-06-11 21:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fighting for him, it's stroking his ego having two girls after him. Tell him he can have her, and act like you don't care. He'll come running!
2006-06-11 21:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋