What should I do?

Question

I was on the phone with my boyfriend while he was talking to his friend who was next to him. His friend happend to be on the phone with a girl as well. Well, i didn't want to seem as if i was listening to what my bf told his friend but i over heard my bf take the phone from his friend and ask the girl, who his friend was talking to "whats up with me and your friend" meaning he wanted to get to know another girl thats not me. i never had a problem trusting him during the six months we have been dating but im feeling a little suspicious. im not a jeaulos type person so i rather him break up with me then to cheat on me. What should i do? Should i confront him or act like i didn't hear anything?

oh and right after i heard what he had asked the girl, the phone on which i was on hung up. He hung up on me and it couldn't have been a mistake because 30 or more minutes have gone by and he hasn't called back.

for those who want to know im 17

Answer 1

Well if you confront him I would be willing to bet he would deny deny deny and then lie. But I think if it were me, I would still ask him anyway about it and also mention to him that he hung up on me and that if he is feeling the need to see someone else, please be adult about it and tell me so I can get on. If you confront him, regardless of what he says, he will know that you heard him. Only problem in all this is that it would only make him much more careful next time. Keep your eyes and ears open and don't be mislead by your feelings. Your insight is there to protect you from either making a mistake or creating on, so pay attention. Good luck!

Answer 2

I think that you should confront him but make sure it is in a casual way because who knows that girl might be just a friend. If you act like nothing has happened you could actually get hurt more in the end. If you really trust him, he probably will tell the truth. Or, you can ask his friend what was going on. If you get a bunch of stories that just don't add up, chances are he is planning to cheat on you.

But then again, what do i know?

Answer 3

If you act like you didn't hear anything he's not going any where any time soon. why would he? He can go out and do what ever he wants and if he don't find any one he has you to come home to. If he must be the one to break up with you then you need to confront him other wise he may come in the door with some type of STD that you want no part of

Answer 4

Ask him what is going on! Let him know that you heard what he said, there is nothing wrong with that. Tell him you'd be fine with breaking up, and you won't take him mistreating you! Be strong girl, there are better men out there.

Answer 5

If that's the way your feeling you need to have a heart to heart with him. Sit him down and ask him to keep it real with you. Ask him everything you want to know and ask him to tell you anything he feel you should know. CAUTION be perpared you might hear something your really not ready for.

Answer 6

The most reasonable thing to do is to find a large rock and beat yourself very hard about the head with it. That will show him not to cheat!

Answer 7

Confront him with what you heard and ask him where he's at as far as your relationship. If he's interested in other girls then let him go.

Answer 8

He knew you were on the phone and could hear, so you have every right to just ask right out what he meant.

Answer 9

be careful what if he keeps one of you as his back up, it's a very tight situation because one way you dont wanna act like you are jealous and other you do wanna know what the hell is going on, if things get crazy just leave him and move on i think it'll be wise choice for you to make...

Answer 10

You sure that's what he was talking about? If not let it go if your really sure confront him and then decide what you want to do..