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Felt like life was too hard for you, you didn't know why you're existed, why you had to talk, and talk with other people, why you have family and relatives, you felt extremely self-conscious about yourself by yourself and others.


Have you ever felt that way.

2006-06-11 14:15:09 · 25 answers · asked by will_jones_90 3 in Health Mental Health

25 answers

Yes. You're aren't alone, but I know you feel that way. I've been in that same dark place. There is nothign wrong with you. Your life has a purpose, and it can be so good. You can make it great for yourself, and your future. There is a lot of good you can do in the world. Please hang on. You're okay. Just keep going.

2006-06-11 14:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

No because life is how you make it Dear. It's that some people go through life being negative all the time, I don't know you but I hope that you're not like this. And some go through life carefree so they seem like they dont' have any stress, but life is just really how you make it! Take advice from Doc Brown in the movie Back to the Future. Here is my motto: As long as you're ok with yourself, you'll get through with ANYTHING!! It's called un conditional love for yourself and knowing that in the end you'll be ok.

Just say to yourself that you love you, trust me it works. If no one else is pulling for you, who would be there but you! And while you're at it, take a hard look at all the good things you DO have in your life right now. And "de-stress" if you are stress right now. Listen to calming music or talk to a priest. Talk to a friend(s). Brighten your outlook on life. Better yet, get a girlfriend/boyfriend! And once you do, don't treat it like a serious thing unless they are too!!!

2006-06-22 19:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0 0

Sadly this is depression and affects most people at some stage during their life including me! I was feeling the way you do even yesterday eventhough I know I should not be! Please see your doctor and professional help this does help, also try to influence your mind to relate to a different thinking by surrounding yourself in a positive environment.

This can be done by being around happy, caring, comfortable people, listening to positive music, walking in the park or bush (I from Australia I think you call it outback!), playing a game that you might enjoy for example pool or table tennis, watching a comedy, and so on.....

I find that once you truly suffer severe depression it is something that will always be there even in the background but you can manage and control it over time and have a relatively happy life. Goodluck and PLEASE DON"T GIVE UP!

2006-06-11 14:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Tom 3 · 0 0

Yes, but stick around, don't give up! You'll get thought it if you just hang on and make the efforts. You've go nothing to lose and i think we're all here for a reason, you don't want to cut your life short and have to start all over again and maybe worse. Look at how lucky you are to have any good things you have (and some people are much worse than you and they are trying to survive too). Because things are not easy, that's why it's worth it.

2006-06-12 09:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by kool_aid 3 · 0 0

Yes. But once you realize that suicide is a permenant solution to a temporary problem it will hopefully help you regroup, Life in no shape way or form can be so bad that you want to die. Look at the brighter side of life and always remember that our Lord the God will not give more to you than you can bear. Peace be with you from here on out and we will pray for you.

2006-06-11 14:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by connie 1 · 0 0

Yes, more than once. On one occasion I came very close to doing something stupid. The only thing that stopped me was running into a friend, just by chance, who said a few positive things, and I snapped out of it. Life's good now, more than 3 years later. I'm really pleased that I haven't missed out on it. If you feel like that ever, and you haven't any friends handy, ring Lifeline or see a medical professional. There are very, very few situations in which suicide is the best option. Bankruptcy, imprisonment, breakup of a relationship, failure in your work, public humiliation, most illnesses and disabilities... After you've pulled out of your downer, you'll be surprised how well you handled it and recovered.

2006-06-11 14:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by zee_prime 6 · 0 0

I can remember many years ago when I was hitchhiking around the country. I was let out of a van and was on a lonely road. It was very dark and there was no moon that night. I could hardly find the asphalt highway. I was lonely and very tired. I had your same feelings. Everyone has their own story to tell you, but we all somehow come out of it and move on. Sometimes we need help from professionals to show us the right way. Anyway, getting back to my story. A bus picked me up. It was a rock band. I was in northern California somewhere. They took me to their house and I slept. The next day one of them drove me into town and I caught a bus and went to Oregon.

I hope and pray you come out of your negative state of being. Life is beautiful. Please look around and see what a beautful life we have.

2006-06-21 13:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 0 0

Yes I have: felt like giving up (and tried), felt like life was (and at times is still) too hard for me and why I must go on. I know I have loved ones to get me through it all and enjoy the better times with (and to return the favors they have so selflessly bestowed on me). This is part and parcel of why I decided not to ever try to commit suicide EVER AGAIN.

2006-06-11 14:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by autisticA 3 · 0 0

You're not alone. At some point. There's over 84 million Americans who suffer with depression. There is a better way. If you need to talk, give me a chat. I understand.

2006-06-20 11:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by lighthouse_halo 4 · 0 0

Yes, I have and do sometimes. I'm a cancer survivor who has tongue cancer now and some days are pretty darn bad with the cancer and other health issues. But you just have to learn to take one day at a time and if that is too much, one hour at a time, one minute at a time. You have to find time to do things you like to do that make you smile, plus helping others is very rewarding.

2006-06-11 14:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by Tina of Lymphland.com 6 · 0 0

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