I am a confident independent woman, educated, have a career, have a house, do those things scare some men?
2006-06-11 13:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by Serinity4u2find 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-11 13:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so much scare as intimidate. The fact that you don't need a man for the traditional reasons is daunting because you will have more control in a relationship and be less likely to compromise for them since your potential selection of men is so wide. If you're having trouble meeting men, put yourself in situations where you do need them, somewhere where you'll have "beginner's anxiety". For example, if you don't know much about sports, go to a sports bar and ask the cutest guy there to explain whatever game he's watching. If you're not into tools go to Home Depot and ask one of the guys for help. This lets the guy have both a feeling of rescuing you in some way and being admired as an authority on something. If you pump a guy's ego up he won't mind so much that you could drop his punk *** like a hot rock any time you wanted.
2006-06-11 21:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, those things don't scare men. What IS a turn-off is loud assertions of, "I'm an independent woman..." Guys want to be needed. If you give too much of a vibe of "I don't need anybody, I can take care off myself" it makes the guy think you don't even need him. Sometimes, when a woman does have so much, it can be a little off-putting because, just that, she doesn't totally need him. She's not destitute. She can survive without him. So, you've got to come across in a way that communicates, "Yea, I can take care of myself, mostly. But I do need a man for certain parts of my life." Because, after all, that is the actual truth, isn't it?
2006-06-11 21:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by John C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you pretty much offer a full package - i dont think many men would be put off by that - confidence, success, education are all sexy qualities
but are you also a generous and voracious lover, a loyal friend and someone who hopefully does not want to always compete with her man?
have you got a great imagination and a desire to be really creative in bed? are you happy to balance your needs with those of your man?
2006-06-11 21:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you descrided only scares the men when you tell them about what you have ,,,,,,sounds more like bragging,,,,,,, just watching some women the way they walk,and act around other people can be a turn off before they even open thier mouths!
2006-06-11 21:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn-offs for me are: making a spectacle of burping and farting loudly and thinking its funny,spitting,picking their nose in public,cocky-tuff attitude,talking about opening a can of whoop azz on anyone,scratching their privates and not trying to be discreet about it,etc,etc,....you get the idea.........basically just bad social behavior or poor hygiene
2006-06-11 21:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
successful women only scare away unsuccessful, loser, gold-digging men & what successful woman would want a man like that anyway?! :)
2006-06-11 21:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion women that are unhygenic lazy rude arrogant.women that have airs about themselves who rely totally on their good looks to get by and women that dont have a go!
2006-06-11 21:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by ravhin28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't scare me.
it would scare those who are still living in the high school/college days of carefree leisure.
or..it could excite them... free ride!
2006-06-11 21:01:15 · answer #9 · answered by lifedrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not me as for trun offs are women that are pushy load untrusting and full of themself
2006-06-11 21:00:45 · answer #10 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋