What should I do?

Question

Okay, Im just now learning to cope with my bitter breakup. And, all of my guy friends all now seem...different. But my closest guy friend was like "You deserve better, I know and you know you do!" And he has been there for me these past couple of weeks, but then again, hes always been with me. And Im starting to really like him, and I know he likes me too. You would think that a couple of weeks would be a good start for recovering on that breakup, but Im still bitter! And I wanna be with my guy friend really bad because I know that he could treat me well and provide what I need. But, if I start going out with him, I think that I will upset because its not the same as it was with my ex. I dont know what I should do or say to him. Any suggestions?? Thanks to everyone who is helping me out here, I really do appreciate it a lot.

Answer 1

Well, you can't compare every guy u meet now to ur ex, it's just not fair. Your guy friend might surprise you, because if you guys become closer, he'll show you the full potential to which he wants to love u! Good luck! I think u should move on, dust off ur ex, and give the guy uve liked for so long that was right under ur nose this whole time. I'm cheering for u guys :]

Answer 2

What i think, is that u should try goin out with your guy friend. If he likes you u like him, then y not give it a try? You cant judge everyone by your ex, so dont even try. Good luck!!! I hope it goes the way u want it to!! ~<3 Kath~

Answer 3

you shouldn't go out with your guy friend! he will only be considered the rebound guy to your ex... also what if you realize that you don't really like your guy friend as much as you thought you did... that would make things all awkward!

Answer 4

Go for it! He sounds like he cares about you.