he tells me everyday that he loves me and he calls me all the time and we go out at least once a week...but i just want to be sure that he never will or even think about seeing another girl..but i dont want to ask...how can i be sure?
2006-06-11 13:34:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't ever be sure of anything.Trust him & don't make wrongfull accusations.
2006-06-11 13:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by michelle_075 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! You're really showing your insecurity there.
First of all, you can't control how a person thinks. So face up to the fact that he WILL think about other women once in a while (he's a man, after all...that's what men DO).
But that doesn't neceserally mean that he's going to cheat. He may, or he may not. You can never be sure. It all depends on the relationship you two have at the moment. It's a matter of TRUST.
Sounds like you have some trust issues that you need to work out first. It doesn't sound like you should be in a relationship while you're stugling with these issues.
Sorry, babe. But maybe a little therapy might help you work out these issues. Otherwise, if you keep thinking like this, you will never have a healthy relationship with someone.
2006-06-11 21:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Pulse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have some deeper trust issues, either (as someone else suggested) from an old relationship, or perhaps something in your family history.
Unless you have kept some suspicious behavior of his out of your question, you don't have much logical reason to not trust him, but this isn't about logic; it's about your feelings. That's why you need to come to terms with whatever is making you so doubtful. In the meantime, make sure the relationship doesn't proceed too quickly, or if you're already emotionally intimate, perhaps it's time to share this fear with him, so he can understand that your doubts might not be specifically about him.
Keep listening to your feelings. They're telling you something; even though it might not be exactly what you're thinking it is right now.
2006-06-11 20:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real relationship is based upon trust. There is no way to know for sure if he will or won't cheat on you, but if you believe what he tells you and believe that he really loves you, that is how you should know. It's all about trust!
2006-06-11 20:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by D's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't.But the fact that your even questioning him says either your already worried or your insecure.Has this happened to you in the past(where a bf has cheated)?All you can do is trust him and if you have reason not to, this might not be the relationship for you.You should'nt have to worry all the time.IF your insecure, work on you and your trust issues.Life is toooo short.Good Luck!!
2006-06-11 20:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have to believe in him hes your bf if he looks like he would cheat on you than you know he will just tell him that you really like him and you never want to leave him
2006-06-11 20:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant know, and it sucks. I ask myself that too. I say trust him until he does something to lose that trust. Which being a man it will probably be something.
2006-06-11 20:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Germain 77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him. . . . .
2006-06-11 20:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Romeo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋