Ok well I'm going to risk some very rude answers but hey I need help on this situation. I met a girl the other day, and asked if she wanted to meet for a date at some party being held at my favorite live music club. So I was waiting for her and the cow stood me up! So I had a couple of drinks of pondered what to do for the rest of the evening as I no one I knew was there and thought f*ck this I'm having fun! And asked a girl to dance, and I suppose feeling cocky after my drinks I sought of let her believe I was Uni student doing a masters degree like she was, one thing led to another and now we're together. I'm 17 and my girl friend is 24. I'm known she would appreciate finding out she's going out with a school boy. Really trapped between "wow I got the jackpot!" I am a guy after all =P and the moral dilemma of my lie. A little help as to what I can do next please? oh and by the way this is NOT illegal the age of consent in England is 16.
2006-06-11 13:29:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. If you are serious about her, tell her now, if she finds out later from someone else. . . . its over.
2. If you're just in it for the booty, don't tell her. Let her find out own her own and ride the booty as long as you can!
2006-06-11 15:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with her because she's going to find out sooner or later. It's not fair to her that she thinks your older and have an interest in the same thing she does when you don't. How would you feel if some girl told you she was older then she was and even looked it but then you found out she was like 13 or something. Now a days girls are doing this more and more.
2006-06-11 20:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're expecting this to last at all, you need to be honest with her. If it's meant to be and she's really as nutz about you as you seem to be about her, maybe she'll forgive you. I guess when I was 24, I would've appricated attention from almost any straight guy (had a bunch of gay friends at that point in my life) but I'm not sure I would've respected someone who told me he was my age and I found out later (especially if you don't tell her and she finds out somehow) that I was dating someone younger than my little brother!
2006-06-11 20:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
String her along for a little while and then dump her. If you're 17, you're way too young for a long-term relationship. Concentrate on short-term, recreational dating and have sex with as many women as you possibly can. When you're married, you will miss the variety and having plenty of memories of variety will absolutely make your life more pleasant, I promise you.
Who cares if you lied to her to get her into bed? If you're pursuing short-term, recreational dating, lie all you want about unimportant stuff. Believe me, she's lying to you about stuff too. The trick is to move on quickly.
2006-06-11 20:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, it's going to come out sooner or later, and although it'll hurt her and piss her off it'll hurt her less coming from you then someone else. And it'll hurt her less the sooner she finds out. What's the point being in a relationship with someone that thinks you're someone else.
I have to give you credit though for being able to pull it off lol
2006-06-11 20:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by cute_but_dangerous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later, she is going to figure out the truth anyway. Better to come clean then get caught in a lie.
2006-06-11 20:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll find out sooner or later, unless she is me and then I would be oblivious to anything. Have fun, unless you two are getting serious, then you should let her know, after all, you might want her to go to your graduation.
2006-06-11 20:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that is a problem id just wate it out because she might dump you after a while any way but if you really like her tell her as soon as posible face to face
good luck i hope you score big
2006-06-11 20:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by cool guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the tuth now man say im sry but i lied to u be u r a kool girl and all im........ and come cleen lieds NAVER win trast me on that on man
2006-06-13 20:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by a lost man looking for help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her before she finds out on her own
2006-06-11 20:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋