I have NEVER been the jealous type of girlfriend, ever! And I encouraged my fiancee to get a stripper for his bachelore party, to have fun! Well, now I heard all the stories from the party, and I am finding that I am sooo jealous! Not mad at all! Just jealous that some other woman had her hands on MY man! LOL Is this normal? Its all I can think about! And not in a good way! LOL But from those of you whose men had parties with the strippers, did the stories of what went on shock you? Did you get jealous?
2006-06-11 13:14:57 · 10 answers · asked by BeckyKay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It's normal to be jealous. But remember the stories may have been added too.
Used to be a dancer. I found it wasn't the man to be married that got out of hand but instead his friends.
The groom to be was normally nice and controlled himself.
Just focus on your special day and the future.
2006-06-11 17:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by ktwister 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You've learned the golden rule, don't ask what happened at the bachelor party! Just be happy knowing the stripper hasn't thought about YOUR man since then, it was just a job to her. Since there is nothing you can do about it, just realize that it's insecurities playing on your emotions this close to the wedding. Just work at letting it go.
2006-06-11 13:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfectly normal to be jealous, but think of it this way: strippers are paid to pretend to like strange guys. Afterward, they go home (or to their next gig) and forget about them. Eventually, your guy will forget about her, too; why should he remember her? He has you!
Oh, and I agree with another answerer: don't ask what happened at the bachelor party!
2006-06-12 08:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Qchan05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine had a belly dancer and a stripper at his party and no jealous here! Now it's your turn to have a bachelorette party with a male stripper and make him jealous!
2006-06-11 14:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal! If you truly didn't care and it didn't bother you, I'd wonder why you were marrying the guy! My husband didn't have a stripper at his party, but if he did I would have been ok with it, but jealous still.
2006-06-12 05:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want your man to have fun and it's good that you let him have the party you don't want to seem like your over bearing.And it's normal to be jealous,because you want to know how was they touching him where did they touch him.But it's o.k it's all over and done with.Everything happens at those damn parties girl but the main thing is he loves you and he's with you.
2006-06-11 13:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. Every bachlorette party I've ever been to has had a stripper and no one worries about the bride to be. They all worry about what the groom to be is doing. Here's the thing about strippers, they get paid to pretend to like the guys and the guys pretend to believe them. So what she touched him, did he sleep with her?
2006-06-11 19:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister though he was ognna have one and she was completly jelous but ended up that he hadn't had one...but hey is just one day and he is still gonna marry you because he loves you so...it's normal to get jelous....i would if my b/f got one...jelousy is just part of life
2006-06-11 14:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by A.S.IP.W.F.D. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Go to a strip club with him. Talk about it.
2006-06-11 13:19:26 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not still going to marry him are you............
2006-06-11 13:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by rebrab728 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋