My grandmother had a seizure and fell down the stairs and she was uncontious for so long she became brain dead..so the doctors took her off of oxygen and they took her off of the feeding tube so now were kinda just waitin 4 her 2 pass..i know its sounds weird..but anyway...
if she lives she wont be able to do anything but breathe..she cant walk,talk,laugh,use the restroom.and stuff like that
but anyway my question is...since she's like on her last breaths my family wants everyone to talk 2 her eventhough she doesnt respond..and they have been waitin on me to talk to her 4 the last like 4 days but i feel so weird because she cant respond..So should i just talk to her while someones at her bed with me..or politely ask them to like leave.or move over so i can talk 2 her alone???
2006-06-11 13:03:20 · 7 answers · asked by Crazygirlie 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I know she may not be able to respond but deep down I really think part of her understands. It may feel weird, but I think you should talk to her like she can understand. Just talk to her, tell her about your fun times together. Tell her your going to miss her. If you don't you will feel terrible later for it. You need to just put in your last words now before it's to late.
2006-06-11 13:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by greatgirl66784 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though she is unconscious and cant respond her brain might be able to hear you. Plus if you need to tell her goodbye you will regret not doing so if she passes on before you get to.
So I say do it whatever way makes you feel better. Either alone or with someone
2006-06-11 20:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she is unconscious and cant respond her brain might be able to hear you. Plus if you need to tell her goodbye you will regret not doing so if she passes on before you get to.
So I say do it whatever way makes you feel better. Either alone or with someone
2006-06-11 13:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an opportunity for you to say goodbye to your Grandmother, if you do not say your goodbyes, you may regret it later on. Don't feel self conscious just tell her how you feel about her situation or you could say that you love her and you will miss her very much but its okay for her to go, because you don't want her to suffer. Tell her you won't forget her. This is more for you than for her and it will help you cope when she does pass.
2006-06-11 13:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, tough situation. I would let your family know that you are uncomfortable, but probably the best thing to do would be to ask to be left alone for a few minutes with her, and if you feel like talking you will, and if you dont, you don't. She knows you love her, whether you decide to talk to her or not. Good luck, and go with your heart.
2006-06-11 13:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by mo-z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is certain that she cannot "hear" you if you speak to her. And it might help you say goodbye to her.
Years from now, you might regret not taking this opportunity. Death is a natural part of the life cycle. It can be a little weird and scary....but be brave and say goodbye to your Grandmother. She loved you your whole life....you'll miss her. Please try.
2006-06-11 13:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13, and well i never met my grandparents except 1 but i dont remember her they all died, but i would want to be alonw with her if i had grandparents. It would be more personal alone. i guess they can understand you if someone is brain dead, so i would want to be alone. i would just say like how much they meant to me or other nice stuff like that. Im so sorryfor you. at least u got to meet her.
2006-06-11 13:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by ilikepies06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋