The school year is finished, he went to visit his dad for the whole summer and left me here. I told him i didn't want him to leave because i would miss him too much.He left and he calls me everyday and we talk for hours,but when he calls I tell him that i want him to come back and when he says he can't and i get mad and we end up not talking.What do i do?!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-11 12:53:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow up!! Or get out of relationsip....you are too young!! Geeesh!! He is visiting his DAD!! You sound like you always want YOUR way...It's NOT good to be a CONTROL FREAK!!!
2006-06-11 12:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by vickififi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the dude is hung-up for the summer and it's beyond his control. That's what happens when families split. Occupy yourself with something else (or someone else) and you will see him in the fall. Tell him you both will take it easy for the summer to see if you feel the same when school resumes. It's a good test for a relationship. Just be his friend for the summer and have a good time without him. He can be in your thoughts and your heart, but he can't control where he is right now; he's still a minor!!! YOu don't want to be the reason he runs away, do you? You don't want to be the reason he causes his whole family to be upset, do you? Use your head, not your heart. He will think a whole lot of you for being so mature for your age and he will come back to you at the end of the summer. Trust him; tell him you trust him. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-06-11 12:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't done anything to warrant breaking up with him.
Give the guy a break. He's visiting his dad! He didn't just "leave you here!" You are being totally selfish. Are your parents still together? Obviously his aren't. I'm sure he would rather have both his parents together and be around you than have to leave and see his dad...don't you?
Grow up, be understanding and not such a brat, you can tell him you miss him but DON'T demand that he come home. Give him the space and time he needs to spend w/his dad or you're going to lose him.
2006-06-11 13:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to chill out. You have to think sometimes about what others are thinking before you. He is probably missing you just as much, but he knows he has to stay with his dad, because after all, it is his DAD. At least he calss you everyday. With some guys they almost forget about u all summer and never call. YOu should just let him know you miss him and are looking forward to him coming back. Dont make him feel bad because he has to stay with his family. He's doing the right thing. I dont meen to sound rude, but it kind of sounds like you need to calm down. He needs to be with his dad. I know you will miss him but he needs to be there and you need to be here, he will be back soon enogh and you can be together then.
2006-06-11 13:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by efraevo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Me having a couple of years on this sort of thing says that if you truly love him you would not even be asking about leaving....... what kind of woman cant not just buck it up and accept that he has made a decision and you can do a couple of things.....dump him or buck up and prove how much you love him and be there when he gets back.... what if he had went across seas to the war... would you be asking this... if your relationship cant take a three month seperation and not be there when it is over then it is prolly not strong enough for you to even bother.... just my thoughts
2006-06-11 12:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by livewire_1997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You quit being so selfish. Loving someone doesn't mean you rule their life or strangle them. You respect that he has things to do, and things over which he has no control. Would you appreciate it if he gave you orders that you were not to leave the house unless he's there to escort you? Or that you can't go shopping with friends unless he's with you? No, you'd be upset that you can't have a life. So suck it up and be glad he calls you. Be upbeat, and be someone he wants to come back to instead of a carping and complaining female.
2006-06-11 12:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by PuterPrsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you are being very selfish and unfair. A few months is not a lifetime being away. I know it feels like it when you care for someone but the fact that he calls you everyday means that he cares about you and is thinking about you. Stop being selfish and trying to make him feel bad for wanting to spend time with one of the people who gave him life so he could be here for you to be selfish with in the first place. Think about it.
2006-06-11 12:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop acting like a loser- The only diffrence is that now you just can't SEE him- you talk to him hours on end. Just tell him Your a loser and WAY to insucre to do a long distance relationship and end it- He should be able to be with someone who's not nagging him about stupid things that he has little to no control of
2006-06-11 12:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look its hard for you to now that he is far away but at times family does come first but, he call and am sure he tells you he loves you so there no big problem. Just wait till he comes back with a huge and a kiss.
2006-06-11 13:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by flurtly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AH Young Love. I think things are going to be fine. He is with his Dad spending time. Trust me I wouldn't leave him over that. Best Of Luck.
2006-06-11 12:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋