2006-06-11 12:36:22 · 11 answers · asked by Danielle A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are making the mistake THOUSANDS make. You can not get someone to love you. Think about music you don't like, be it opera, oldies, rap, metal. Can anyone get you to like the music you don't? If you gave music you didn't like a chance it would be because you wanted to get in good or please someone you did like. You can get him to notice you, but he will not like of love you because of that. However, once you get him to notice(and hopefully in a positive way< then you can work on finding out if there is a way to get his love.
To get his love you have to be the catalyst of his happiness. You will have to find out what he likes, his passion. His dreams desires etc. If you can identify the void he has in his life, and figure a way to fill it, you but have to let him see that you are the cork needed for that bottle of wine and HE will seek your affection. He has to believe that YOU will make him happy and then you are there. And you can only do that by finding where the void is and finding a way to feel it(and just hopping on your back is not it)
2006-06-12 08:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay simple as what you are if u want him back change the bad traits/habit etc..he don't like .show him your a new woman for him that you grow already....and learn a lot new things and more open now to what he wants..lay your cards to him I'm sure if he's still free..without a blink he will take you..of course wear something that he could not focus solely to all you said but to ur looks,
2006-06-11 19:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by effy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing about staring and loving from afar: you don't know them. You may watch them, think that you know them better than anyone because you understand them but reality id, I'm sorry to say, that you don't. Talk to him. Learn who he really is and then if you still love him and you actually know who he is, tell him.
2006-06-11 19:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by nothingis_sound 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....take it from someone who was completely obssesed with a boy once...trying everything to get him to notice me...it doesn't work...if he doesn't notice you for who you are then i would say that he isn't right for you..you can't make someone look at you or love you....one day you will find someone who will love you for everything you are and will be....don't hurry these things it will happen when it is supposed to!
2006-06-11 20:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot make someone love you. and if you want him to notice you try talking to him.
2006-06-11 19:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him (accidentally) bump into him have fun make sure he sees you spill somthing hopefully he wil offer to help pick it up if not oopps
2006-06-11 19:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Dizzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel and if all else fails flash him.
2006-06-11 19:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by GaPeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what everyone will say, "just be yourself". Good Luck.
2006-06-11 19:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a slutty shirt sweaty. that always works.
2006-06-11 19:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Soreene H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself
2006-06-11 19:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by ticklemepinki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋