For example men and women out there, I met this guy who asked me for my number, and we hit it off pretty good just by coversation and e-mail, and drop by type visits.Now I walk faithfully in God, he understands that, so he say. He said that he will never disrespcet my walk, but on the other hand I want to get to know him more, maybe go on a date, but I can't seem to get that time. He tells me in my e-mail that he feels that he is unworthy, or not good enough for me, but yet he is optimistic. Please help me understand, because I really like this guy, but however I am dazed and confused. He also say that he don't know what type of timespan I am looking for, or what kind of relatioship/friendship I am looking for in him. Help please, cause my heart hurt, and I have never been intiment with this guy, but our connection is so strong even he said that that when we connect, its like we have met before.
2006-06-11 12:11:12 · 11 answers · asked by pecanbrowne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's playing you for guilt and sympathy. Next you'll give in as expected. A real man will respect and value you as a whole. He should be able to wait and walk the same walk, and just don't talk.
Watch your back and don't get hurt and taken so easily..girlfriend!
2006-06-11 12:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a religious nut, and tho he may find you physically attractive, the faith thing is just beyond anything he could in the end handle. Sorry, the connection is all in your head -- he's a bright guy, you aren't very intelligent in his eyes (No thinking, educated person believes in the supernatural anymore.......) Sorry, honey....
2006-06-11 12:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's just trying to be nice and not hurt your feelings. either that.... or if he's saying he feels unworthy - maybe he's a party time and doesn't want to give up a certain lifestyle for a girl yet.
2006-06-11 12:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by momma2anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some men just want one thing and that's not a relationship.
2006-06-11 12:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he feels he's unworthy of you, listen to him. He's probably telling you the truth.
2006-06-11 12:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie if he felt the same waiting wouldnt be a problem-maybe you should just move on
2006-06-11 12:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he isn't interested in dating you but doesn't know how to tell you that.
2006-06-11 12:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wanted a booty call, you will find someone with your believes so.
2006-06-11 12:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY WANT TO GET IN YOUR PANTS
2006-06-11 12:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he jus wants some putang........
2006-06-11 12:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by mathhelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋