How can I be mysterious with women but on the same point not be too quiet or boring?

Question

Because if im too mysterious then I wont be talking much and that will screw me over and already has...and i know that the women is supposed to talk more in the relationship but i still need to talk...do i talk to them a lot when im talking to them and then leave and keep them wanting more.....im confused....help please.

Answer 1

Depending on the type of girl you are trying to get with, I agree that many times there's many "games" we have to play to keep the relationship alive or to get their interest at least at first.

For the most part you are asking a question about becoming/acting like a different person, its not a hard thing to do but you do have to understand that, that is what you are doing.

Being more attractive to the other person and keeping their interest doesn't neccesarily involve being mysterious. There's a lot to write on this topic but I can give you one example.

When going out with a girl do something you normally wouldnt do, ie walking in the park. Walk over to some wild flowers pull out a nice one, and put it in her hair behind her ear. If that's something you don't normally do, then they most likely view it as intriguing or "mysterious." But the next step what you say is what either makes you creepy or cool... but thats for you to think about.

There's also a new book out called The Game, I believe. Go check it out I heard its interesting.

PEace

ps being mysterious it has nothing to do wth being less talkative etc etc, its all in the eyes bodylanguage and in the actions.

Answer 2

You are obviously not a person who likes to play these silly emotional games. So don't. Be yourself and you will meet someone like that eventually. Personally, there is nothing more attractive than a partner who speaks his mind. I don't go in for the mysterious bs. In the grownup world that usually serves up to cover up some kind of "baggage."

Answer 3

if you cant be with someone for who they are then fu*k them. be open about who you are. being mysterious only seems like you are hiding something.