If you’re sexual partner's fetish is for you to make sex rough for him by you doing the following to him: He wants you to bite him erotically and dig your nails into his skin. He want's you to slap him around, rough him up, spank him and tell him that he is your property. He wants you to tie him down and have your way with him while telling him you are in charge.
Would you do these things to him? Would you like to be in charge or preferred he was?
2006-06-11 11:10:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First I would try and find out if he was into these types of things because of past abuse. Some people like these types of things because of past emotional and physical traumas. both physical and sexual abuse as a child can cause these sorts of desires as a teen and adult. He might not want to talk about it, but if he wants that sort of thing out of you, you deserve to know if it's a healthy thing for both of you. On the other hand, there are plenty of people out there who just plain get off on a little pain. Pain release endorphines, your brain's self produced narcotic painkiller. Endorphines are the reason some people like spicy food. if that's the case Beat the **** out of him you might even like doing it once you try it!
2006-06-11 11:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Wench 2 · 19⤊ 2⤋
I bite my sex partner and rough him up, but no way i am dig him with my nails. Thats wrong. But everything else i would do for him if it makes him happy.
2006-06-11 18:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be sure, even though it would not appeal to me, I would not regard him as odd or pervy or a fagg. In fact, if a boyfriend confided these things to me, I would be honoured that he trusted me enough to tell me his most secret desires, as it must be quite difficult for a guy to admit to wanting sex like this.
Lots of people engage in this kind of sexual play. (Otherwise the likes of Ann Summers would not sell such things as handcuffs, spanking paddles etc, would they?). So, he is not unusual if this is what he enjoys, and equally, there are women who would enjoy doing it too. All he has to do is find one of them!
2006-06-11 18:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by fallen angel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys like dominating women (myself included). Realize that he gets sexually aroused by this and its in your power to please him. Try it out and see if you like it (many women also like playing this role). If you don't after a while tell him that.
Make it into a giving-sex session. Do it for special occasions or something. But make sure there is a trade-off. He needs to satisfy your fantasies too.
A little biting and scratching never hurt anyone, and its a total turn on :)
2006-06-11 18:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by aliasasim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with kinky sex acts between consenting adults as long as it doesn't border on perverse. He sounds like he is in to domination!! Are you up for the challenge is the real question? If you are, do the whole role, dress accordingly and oh yeah don't forget the dog leash and cat-a-nine tails to beat that butt. Does it sound like fun yet? As for me I have my moments sometimes I like him to take charge and then there are times I like to surprise him and just take what I want other times WE take each other. Either way GOOD sex is GOOD sex!!!!!!!!
2006-06-11 18:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by vabch56 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would do anything my husband wanted! It's very suprising that things like this can turn us on. My husband is a very take charge kind of person, he always wants to be in control of every situation, including sex. Once in awhile I can get him to let that down, and he loves when we have sex like this! I hate when people tell me what to do, I'm a born leader, but when we get in that bed, it all changes, I love for him to throw me around and give me orders, it is so sexy! I say try all types of things, you'll never know what you like unless you try it!
2006-06-11 18:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Aunt Sam 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I not a girl or anything but...
Hell yeah... that's what some of us guys want: something out of the ordinary.
I mean sexual pleasure is all about giving each partner what they want in bed.
Be sure to pick me as the best answer, thank you!
2006-06-11 18:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by R.K. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-06-11 18:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Hodydode 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is more common for the woman to want to be roughed up, and have fantasies of being manipulated and dominated by a man.
However, if a lover of mine wanted that..I would certainly oblige.
2006-06-12 17:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual preferences are different for everyone. It is a two way street, if you are comfortable with his desires and demands, anything goes as long as it is consentual and behind closed doors.
2006-06-11 18:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by Donna G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a committed relationship it is OK as long as neither of you let it go too far. It can be enjoyable sometimes but there have been noted cases of injury and/or death.
2006-06-11 18:14:44 · answer #11 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋