everyone has been telling me that he's not seeing her including his mom and brother.but on the other hand his exe's side of the family is saying that they are seeing eachother.I DONT KNOW WHO TO BELIEVE WHAT SHOULD I DO?he says he loves me not her.and that she's nothing to him.but yet i talked to my fiancees sister and she said that they have been together today she lives in swift currant and she come every couple of weekends and starts **** with me hoping i would let her win and have him back that ***** better think again she can keep thinking im going to let her win when im not he's mine and im not going to let her have him back i wish i could claw her ****** eyes out or somthing.
2006-06-11 11:00:50 · 12 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best scenario is to talk to his ex in person one-on-one. If she is a slut she will lie, if she wants a relationship then she won't.
Families will not take your side, they will do what is in their children's best interest. So don't take anything they say as the truth.
I hate to say this, but you gotta play the game. If you really love him, you have to do everything you can to save the relationship.
2006-06-11 11:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by aliasasim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all you need to confront your fiancee about why he is seeing his ex. Next you need to step outside the situation and think if someone came to you for advice what would you tell that girl? That man is going to be with his ex if he wants no matter how hard you try to stand in the way. So with that said let me give you one more piece of advice love=trust and if you do not trust him you shouldn't marry him!!!
2006-06-11 11:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by yofrog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a relationship you will have your ups and downs. now if people from both sides of your family is telling you different things then you should just wait until you actually see him with his ex then talk to him about the way you are feeling.that way it will keep ypu from clawing out ole girls eyes,and you can still handle your problem like the woman you are. good luck
2006-06-11 11:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't get mad. she looking for a reaction from you. secondly if it bothers you that bad, then let your fiance know and he needs to know that you will not be "second to her". Do not live in her shadow. If there is any doubt that he is cheating on you, find a way and let him go. Stop and think, does his family really like you are you the best thing for him, if his family cares for you then they are telling you the truth, and her family is starting trouble. Biggest part, Do Not let her get the best of you. Fight fire with fire
2006-06-11 11:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your fiancee,and it ended badly together with your Ex.. Do you believe he would simply be looking to break your dating together with your fiancee? How do you believe your fiancee could reply to you going out together with your Ex for lunch? I believe your Ex can have ulterior factors for short of to head out to lunch with you. Was he petty ago? Would he declare for your fiancee that the 2 of you had extra then lunch in combination? If he rather desired to harm you he would do it very effectively,Why deliver him the danger? If you real love your fiancee then i could advise that you do not move to lunch together with your Ex and i would not you have to be peers with him both.....
2016-09-08 23:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a contest?? You make him sound like a bull at an auction.
Either you trust him or you don't. If you do, then ignore what they say and get on with your life. If you don't, then tell him goodbye and find someone you trust and get on with your life.
2006-06-11 11:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by PuterPrsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator to get your proof. Cause mouth could say anything.
2006-06-11 11:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always other men out there
Men are like BUSES. THey come by every 20 minutes!!!!
2006-06-11 11:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his mom tells you that then I would dumb him,, you will have won in the long run... sound like nothing but a heartache
2006-06-11 11:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect her side to say. They are going to support her no matter what the case is.
2006-06-11 11:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋