why is it every time i make a statement about men someone says its me . if i see what i see then thats what i see. if i say all i see are doggish self centered men then why cant that be just like i said it. if someone hurt me in the past then why is the blame put on me for someone elses actions. i cant control what a person does. yes im angry at men. all i hear are remarks like it could be you. if a guy stayed out late and lied about where he was how in the hell is that my fault. if i see men messing around on there wives then how is it there wives fault. if i see men not being romantic in a relationship how is that my fault. true enough women do it to but im not talking about women at this time. so anyone who blames me for a man being a dog needs to think twice and just look around and theyll see different
2006-06-11 10:47:53 · 6 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOUR RIGHT men are dogs and it's not always the girls fault for what they do (i admit sometimes it is) but I do think that your friends are using the fact that you are angry with men in general against you. They need to ask themselves if they would feel the same way you do if they were put in those types of positions. Don't stay mad thought cause one day you will meet a really nice guy that deserves you and you don't want your bitterness to ruin that. And NO it isn't you I'm married to a faithful man and I feel the same way you do.
2006-06-11 10:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by baby girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what is your real question? Whatever you feel like you are being blamed for, forget it. It takes two to tango, it takes two to make any relationship friends or more. It also takes maturity to accept your mistakes, learn from them and move on. If you feel like you did nothing wrong then move on. No sense in dwelling on what everybody else thinks. It really only matters what God thinks first. This problem seems to be related to self-esteem. You know right from wrong, so stop letting other people's views bring you down. Believe in yourself, always do your best and keep your faith. When anyone does the things you stated they do not respect their partner or themselves and you don't need them as long as they are immature. One day perhaps they will grow up and realize their actions affect others but until then, you can't change them. You can only change your own view.
2006-06-11 18:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Maddog30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey woo up there mate, not all guys are like that, it's not right to put all of any class in the same boat. I understand that you are angry with the men(boys) in your life, & no it is definitely not your fault that a guy plays up on you, nobody deserves that. I don't know you but maybe you are just looking in the wrong places & at the wrong stereotypes. Bad boys seem fun & exciting at first but face it their not long term possibilities, are they? I would say just be yourself & mr. right will find you, just be ready, see ya!!!
2006-06-11 18:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by cotts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to be you. If one of many suggest that it might be, then brush it off and get on with life. If all say that it might be you, then consider the possibility that it might be you.
It is your reaction to the hurts and criticism that make you the solution or the problem. Get help with your anger. Let it go, you will be so much happier. As they say "Time wound all heels" so let your happiness be your revenge on those who hurt you. Anger just lets them continue to hurt you.
Best of luck in working things out.
2006-06-11 18:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Hums2oldies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reread this several times and have no idea what you said.
2006-06-11 17:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has their moments.
2006-06-11 17:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋