Your partner wants to have a more serious relationship and confesses to you they are Bi-sexual but want to continue with you. They have been faithful and you have feelings for that person. But at some point you know that they will be drawn sexually to someone of their same sex.
Do you continue in that relationship?
Do you continue in that relationship?
2006-06-11 10:34:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because they ARE bisexual, doesn't mean that they will be unfaithful, or that they are "strange" in any way. This is 2006. People aren't traditional as they were many years ago. Be open minded. Talk honestly about the subject and what each of you expects. Make your decisions on staying or leaving after that.
Also, just because they admit to you their sexuality, doesn't mean that they will ever be "drawn sexually to someone of the same sex". It just means that they dont want to hide anything from you. They are being open with you, and are hoping that you won't judge them because of it. Appreciate their honesty, and take it with a grain of salt. You'll be glad you did (btw. i'm bisexual, and marrying a straight male...and NEVER have any intention of being involved with a woman again. I love my fiancee, and have commited myself to HIM alone.)
2006-06-11 10:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by silvlply_lvle 1 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I'd probably get out. Fact is, that's not any different, though, than anyone else. Temptation is temptation. The question is, will they give in? Do you trust her to remain faithful? Does she have sound moral character? My first question, being a Christian, is. . .is my potential mate a strong Christian, because the Bible says not be 'yoked' or bonded with unbelievers. The values aren't the same. Do you and this woman have the same values? That's really the bottom line.
2006-06-11 10:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because they are bi-sexual doesn't mean that they won't stay faithful. The fact is that they chose you, and have been faithful for half a year. Really what it comes down to is do you trust them...
2006-06-11 10:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Decade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its a guy, then hell no. A girl, its a little more acceptable. But do you mean bisexual as in you have double the worries. (never thought about that huh) A same sex best friend may really be a lover. The choice is yours!
2006-06-11 10:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why not? the partner being bi-sexual is no problem to you. that is their sexuality. since you have feelings for this person, i would stay if I were you. I wouldnt dump my partner because of her sexuality.
2006-06-11 10:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this relationship was a faithful one, then communication would of been one of thee attributes that a couple share, and in this case it wasn't. I wouldn't stay in the relationship.
2006-06-11 11:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by Donna G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: Would you trust your partner? Because is you can't trust your partner, theres no reason to be caught in that kind of lifestyle.
2006-06-11 10:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by glitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i wouldnt cause they really wasnt honest with you from the beginning and as you said, they might feel attracted to someone of their same sex.
2006-06-11 10:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS A TOUGH ONE, WHY NOT TRY IT OUT AND IF IT DOESNT WORK OUT THEN HEY THERE ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA, HAVE YOU EVER TRIED TO HAVE A THREESOME SO THAT WAY YOUR PARTNER WOULDNT HAVE THE SEXUAL DESIRE TO SNEAK AROUND WITH THE OTHER SEX.
2006-06-11 10:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♥eLiZaBeTh♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to me i would decide depending on the love you have for your partner and ask why he or she didnt tell me before, i think you would also wonder, what else isnt he telling me?
2006-06-11 10:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by mackdaddy0726 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋