Ok well I'm going to risk some very rude answers but hey I need help on this situation. I met a girl the other day, and asked if she wanted to meet for a date at some party being held at my favorite live music club. So I was waiting for her and the cow stood me up! So I had a couple of drinks of pondered what to do for the rest of the evening as I no one I knew was there and thought f*ck this I'm having fun! And asked a girl to dance, and I suppose feeling cocky after my drinks I sought of let her believe I was Uni student doing a masters degree like she was, one thing led to another and now we're together. I'm 17 and my girl friend is 24. I'm known she would appreciate finding out she's going out with a school boy. Really trapped between "wow I got the jackpot!" I am a guy after all =P and the moral dilemma of my lie. A little help as to what I can do next please?
2006-06-11 10:27:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alittle detail in law in England dating a 17 year old is not a minor age of consent is 16
2006-06-11 10:33:07 · update #1
OK ONE MORE TIME! THE AGE OF CONCENT IN ENGLAND IS 16! THERE IS NOTHING ILLEGAL HERE! Just moral!
2006-06-11 10:47:55 · update #2
Oh, my.. you really have a complication there. Well you know what you have to do, tell her the truth. You just meet her and lied to her, you obviously dont like her that much. Good Luck, and you better buffer your face, you might get slapped or kicked in the balls.
2006-06-11 10:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her....I'm sure you'd want the truth if the roles were reversed. What you are doing is also illegal. If someone not so nice finds this information out, SHE could be charged with statutory rape or with the intent. She needs to know the truth. I know it might suck in the end, but you'll never forgive yourself if you dont open up to her. Good luck man, and I hope you do the right thing. Think of what you would want if SHE were 17 and you were 24, and you knew the huge risks that were being taken in dating a minor.
2006-06-11 17:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by silvlply_lvle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the whole story and the TRUTH and be braced for possibly being told to F*** off or not. All depends on how long you have been together and what kind of person she is. Good luck.
2006-06-11 17:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by SingleHotMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her before she finds out, cause she could end up in jail for dating a minor.
2006-06-11 17:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you should do is tell her the truth because if she finds out you are lying then it is definitely over, but if you are honest and tell her that you didn't want to tell her because you had lots of feeling for her and you didn't want her to not want to be with you anymore.
2006-06-11 17:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a letter explaining and lots of red roses...and just wait for a phone call.
2006-06-11 17:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by glitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol u r screwed. that sucks for u. but thats what u get for no telling the truth.
2006-06-11 17:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by jmon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she is sleeping with a minor, she could go to jail you know!!
2006-06-11 17:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dude.. ur in a tight one there
2006-06-11 17:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by ice princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing can be hidden under the sun.
2006-06-11 17:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by unknown u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋