look i know i'm only 14 so don't say i too young. is it ok if i like my nextdoor neibor who is like 3 years younger than me. please give me a surious answer. i really need to know if the relationship will work.
2006-06-11 10:19:59 · 17 answers · asked by derrickmehaffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it won't, because you are just way too yong. Focus on school and baseball and stuff.
2006-06-11 10:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by georgia1402 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is nothing wrong with liking someone younger. But that doesn't answer the question of whether of not it would be a good relationship. It's ok to like anyone know matter what age, that doesn't mean you should act on it. Most girls like to date older guys. It is a simple fact. And they often have alternate motives. Not all girls are like this but you should be warned of the harsh truth.
How does she feel about this? Does she know that you like her? Do you guys hang out often? Do you have things in common. Unless you have some common interest and you see each other a lot as it is, I would not recomend going for it. She probably has her own friends and range of boys she is going for. I can imagine being in her shoes and thinking you are cool just because you are older, be careful.
2006-06-11 10:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 10 and 11 i had a girl who i REALLY loved.. ppl said i was too young, but i would seriosuly do anything for her.
anyways.. your friend is 11, correct? is she still in elementary? if so, don't date her.. i had a friend who dated a 5th grader and was hated. However, if she's in middle school where you may be however, then it's ok.
most people who get married aren't the same age.. A lot are anywhere from 5 years apart. I have a teacher whos husband is like 20 years apart lol.
2006-06-17 15:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Me lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll put it this way to you. Do what you believe is right but make sure it is for the right reasons. Relationships are easy to start but hard to keep. Concentrate more on your life rather than what can or can not be. IN due time you will know what is good for you and what isn't. But make sure you also enjoy your life because it is the only life you have. Live it to the fullest.
2006-06-11 11:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Hector A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is a little wierd to like someone 11 yrs old. but since you are a boy and girls mature faster than boys, it should be a pretty good working realationship because you will be at the same level of understanding. Just dont lay any big moves on her, I think she is a little young for that.
2006-06-11 10:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm trying to think. if i was in that situation. i am 14 so the guy that likes me would be 17. we'll what do u think is the right choice if it was vice versa. she is older then u. do u think it's right. but it's up to u i don't live u'r life ( good thing cause i'm a girl) and i don't know the 11 yr old girl
2006-06-11 14:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by holygrail Kniggit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay if you like your neighbor but it most likely won't end up in marriage. The possibility is really slim but if you want to be with your neighbor, give it a shot. Don't let oppurtunities pass you by.
I'm 17 and about 15 months.
2006-06-11 10:22:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is perfectly fine dont worry about what other ppl think there are some ppl that like others that are 10 years older than them go ahead ask her out have confidence my dad is 3 years older than my mom and there is nothing the matter with that 3 years is a little if you really like her you'll know age ain't nothing but a number
2006-06-11 10:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course not this is just a child play or may be u just attracted to some thing he did like sport or looking u know the rest or should I say u r a teenagers
2006-06-11 10:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by ANUBIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a little yeah it will work but you have to give her time and then try again cause i am 14 did the some thing
2006-06-14 13:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only 11? If it were me i would want to find someone a little bit older, but if you really like her then i guess it would be ok.
2006-06-11 10:25:17 · answer #11 · answered by Silverstein!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋