play these stupid games when they meet someone? Why cant they be real and put themselves out there?
2006-06-11 10:17:02 · 14 answers · asked by Lookinstr8over 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said the key word "girls". Not every female is like that. Some of them can't be real because they have a fear of being hurt. You can ask the same question about guys. Why can't guys just be straight up and show who they really are at the beginning? If everyone stopped playing games and were honest from the word go things wouldn't be so confusing.
2006-06-11 10:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by fungirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because so many men wont put themselves out there either. Girls are afraid that all a guy is going to want from them is sex, thats the reason we try not to put ourselves out there and hurt ourselves when all we are doing is being used. Girls are being used to much these days, and that is basically all most girls know.
2006-06-11 17:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by ~Lindsey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be real and put my self out their if i liked you actually i would ask you out in person instead of in note and i would do it in front of all your friends so you would be put on the spot and you would say yes i would do that if i really liked you and you were especially hot so you wouldn't say no but that's only when i really do like you but most girls normally play games because they're shy or just don't know what you would say or how you would react hoped i help e-mail me at kelly1993@charter.net or at lyn2norton@yahoo.com
2006-06-11 19:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by jakelyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obviously not meeting the right girls, you need to be patient and soon enough that real girl will walk into your life until then just have fun
2006-06-11 17:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to find women that don't play games and stop fooling around with girls.
2006-06-11 17:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by rachellynn200 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are trying to get with those spoiled, pretty girls. Try dating the ones that are average, you will see the difference. Look for the ones that have personality.
2006-06-11 17:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by glitter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls are more impractical than guys. They dont have that desire to makes sence and rather beat around the bush often.
2006-06-11 17:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by donttrustsheep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I am sure that you play your fair share of head games
2006-06-11 17:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically because they have low self esteem and have to reassure themselves that you really like them enough to chase after them.
2006-06-11 17:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of rejection... EVERYONE hates rejection! I know I'm terrified of it! Why would a girl put herself out there and look like a damn as*?!?!?
2006-06-11 17:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by brnzdbeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋