My bf & I talk on the phone all the time.....?

Question

He says he luvs talking 2 me a ton, but he doesen't usually call me......I call him. He will call, though. Sometimes he sounds annoyed, but he says he wants 2 talk......should I quit calling him?

Answer 1

YES....make him wait!!! When he misses you he will call. WE tend to call more often and not give thema chance. Let him take the initiative every now and then. I'm not saying don't call at all, just don't call as much!

Answer 2

Ok, YES Quit calling him. Men don't usually like talking on the phone, you should let him call you, because when he calls you he might want to do something with you, make plans though and live your life. Keep your man on his toes. :)

He sounds annoyed, because he is, and he doens't want to hurt you feeligns because he cares about you, so yeah, he'll say he wants to talk.. I've seen this a million times.

DO NOT CALL HIM for a week, see if he calls you, and when he does, he might want to see you and talk to you. Talk in person. Don't tell him everything you do over the phone cuz when you guys see each other, you will have nothing to talk about, and he will lose interest in you. I used to do this **** when I was lik 18-21, I wouldnt' plan out my day to be with my ex.

Live you life, and he will call, and you'll be so occupied with your life you wont be like those stupid chicks that wait by the phone all day and let life pass them buy.

Good luck though ok. :)

Answer 3

Means of communication. You can be around each other 24/7 and you can eat up time on the phone, especially if it's long distance. $$$ cha-ching $$$. Why not make a deal with him that he calls you on Monday/Wednesday/Friday and you call him Tuesday/Thursday Saturday. "What about Sunday??" you may be asking. Make that a date night or a free for all. each of you surprise each other. First one to call, gets to say "I love you first". Or something like that. Main thing is not to stifle him, but convey that you would like for him to take a more active roll in your conversations and not to be just a passive participant in the relationship.

Hope this helps.

Answer 4

Maybe just call him once a day, unless he asks you to call him more. He's just a boyfriend, not a husband. Give him some space.
When I was younger, My dad would have strung me up for calling a boy, and it kind of still sticks with me. Usually, the man will want to make the first move.

Answer 5

give him some space!!!!!!! you are calling him too often and that is why he sounds annoyed at times when he answers the phone. dont quit altogether but keep it to once or twice a day. if you keep on calling too often, he is going to start thinking that you have no life and out of the blues he will break up with you. be careful.

Answer 6

Are you actually seeing each other in person or is this all over the phone bf/gf dating? Because if it's the phone thing and he's not calling you, then he's just not that into you. You should read the book "he's just not that into you" if this is the case. It's an awesome book

Answer 7

Maybe you should see each other more and not be on the phone so much. My bf is the same way. He calls and I call him but I don't think guys like to be on the phone a lot... Good luck =)

Answer 8

Call him less often....it will make him think your not so readily available to him if you don't call as often....might give him more to talk about to keep you interested...If he sounds uninterested...maybe it's just that you talk on the phone too much and he has nothing to say....give it a day or two then he might have more to say....do you see each other too?

Answer 9

Don't call him all the time. And don't ask him to call you. It's his responsibility. Yes, every now and then, you can call him. But not all the time. And don't doubt him, at least while talking to him. If he's your boyfriend, he should love you and take the time out of his busy (or not so busy) schedule to call you and make plans.

Answer 10

oh god! never read the book 'he's just not that into you' ! its nothing but shallow male rational and rhetoric. guys don't usually like being on the phone if they can be with you in person. guys brains are hardwired differently and usually don't talk as much in a whole day as chicks do in a couple of hours ... its a scientific fact.