Do they really think we are that ignorant? Because I'm sure not. Can spot one a mile away.
2006-06-11 09:30:28 · 27 answers · asked by annastasia1955ca 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clearly, lots of players and users of women are quite successful at screwing with woman--figuratively and literally. This leads me to believe that a lot of women are also gullible or naive as well as insecure. The other possibility is that they don't care if they're being taken advantage of and they also just want to "have a good time." Good for you if you spot the players. But do any nice guys have a shot I wonder?
2006-06-11 09:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Paul F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Younger men think they can play women because they find it as a challenge and amusing. This sounds very wrong but in the same sense it is equally as challenging and amusing for women to 'steal' another woman’s boyfriend or husband. Although it is not the majority who do these things there is a large enough number of individuals for us to notice. To make it easier to comprehend, basically list the reasons why a woman would steal a man from another relationship and I can promise you that the list will be 85% to 95% compatible to the list of reasons why men play women.
2006-06-11 16:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think that because a whole lot of women allow themselves to be played. These women so desperately want to be able to say they "have a man," that they accept any kind of degrading behavior from these men.
This allows a whole lot of men who have gotten away with "playing" on women to think that they can get away with it all the time. Then when they run into a woman with high enough self-esteem who won't accept any old BS, they think she's being a "b*tch" when in reality she is just showing how high of a caliber woman she is and that she has high standards. If a man can't deal with a woman with enough self-esteem to want the best from a man she's with then they should just keep stepping and go back to the sorry-assed women who want them.
2006-06-11 16:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are the men u stay clear away from. Your one of many women that can see right through fake men becuz i am also a woman that is driven crazy when i see men that are out to get whatever they can get than leave. As long as u see it then take it as a red flag.
2006-06-11 16:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is because people like to think that they are the best at what they do. Even game playing. The sad part is that unfortunately, there are ladies out there who are not up on the games and do get caught up, which makes the guy think that if it worked on one, it can work on another.
2006-06-11 16:37:38 · answer #5 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can too - but some guys are just down right ignorant. If a guy is playing you move on - there are many men out there that don't play games.
2006-06-11 16:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by SingleHotMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
overall we are not as smart as our confidence makes us think but the reason we act like that is because its worked if not once ,numerous times. not all women are as sharp as u.I'm not trying to make myself out to be a player but I See it happen all the time going out and these women just buy into it. they dont care dont get it or ha vent learned their lesson yet .But in men's defense
Ive seen it all turned around too and women can get away with some s...t
2006-06-13 21:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by jp5150 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they don't think. Just trust your own instincts. But,Please,there are real men out there. Keep hunting. Don't give up on the Male species,Yet! Use the rotten ones as a learning tool.
2006-06-11 16:37:46 · answer #8 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not in general. Some women play men too, such is life, but we have the privilege to choose. So start looking for the RIGHT ONE NOT FOR THE PERFECT ONE, perfection does not exist, some advices? do not believe in everything they say, do not trust them in everything they do, and love the best things about him, do not try to understand him, just love him the way he is. Good luck!!!!
2006-06-11 16:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by ruthpalacios99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and you both honey! i know exacally what you are sayin! they are ignorent and have found many lame women who they can play....so they get caught off guard when inteligent ones like us can spot them 20 miles away. i think life has made us smarter due to past idiots, and some women just are so desperate for " love " the doint even care.....
2006-06-11 16:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋