im a guy, n im wonderin...
do girls always wait for guys to make the first move? cos i know a girl atm who likes a guy n i think he likes her to but she wont ask him out, n i got the same thing wen i fancied a girl who fancied me back, she wouldnt make the first move. i just wanna know if its all girls that let men make the first move?
2006-06-11 09:25:09 · 30 answers · asked by The Disturbed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girls like the importance of being asked out...they do not like to be leaders in relationships, they like to be spoiled, loved and told that they are the best, most beautiful and this is for ever...they like to be conquered as Mount Everest, they like the attention, no matter what they say, think about the opposite: she said no? well it means yes! She turns back at you? It means "Come closer!"...you'll get it....
2006-06-11 09:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by curious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A guy should make the first move ! but in this century it doesnt happen! The girl always have to do it. and the thing is , it even happens to adults over 25 yrs old , not just teenagers! Ive never had a boyfriend yet and im 23 yrs old and i dont know if it is because I dont make the move or the guy is too scared ( why ? there is no reason) or no one likes me, but IT is nice if a guy can make a move for once !
2006-06-11 11:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey check out my question "Should I ask him out?". I'm up for asking a guy out, as are many women. Problem is there are some guys who think that only the male of the species are allowed to make the first move and they ruin it for the rest of you guys.
How do you think women feel, we want to ask a man out, we are quite happy to ask a man out, but their are men out there who turn us down because of some non-existent law saying that if a woman makes the first move the relationship is automatically null and void.
Why do you think that sometimes us women find it easier to just let you men do all the work -it's safer.
2006-06-11 09:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the girls like to be first asked out by guy. But some of them are more initiative so they ask the guy out first. It shouldn't be important that much in my opinion who will ask who. It's a traditional things that the guys should be the first. There is some biological explanation: men like to hunt and dislike when girl is taking their role..
2006-06-11 09:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys should make the first move because it shows that they are interested. Girls are afraid of rejection and (although guys r 2) think that the guys should be the one being rejected because they r more "tough" when it comes to those things.
2006-06-11 09:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally rely on the guy to make the 1st move but that's not always a good idea because he maybe waiting for you to make a move.
2006-06-11 09:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by sunshyne1519 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I see someone I'm interested in, I don't wait for them to make the first move..I make it. You can't live life if you just sit there and let someone else call the shots. If you see something you're interested in....GO FOR IT!!!
2006-06-11 10:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess most of the time girls like to be asked out. I have asked a guy out when I got fed up with waiting for him to ask me! We went out for two years. Most of my longer term relationships started out as friendships and developed from there.
2006-06-11 09:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kazcatlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i make the first move alot of times but i dont ask them out cuz i think thats the guys job to do that
2006-06-11 09:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats outdated, its fine for either the bloke or the bird to make the first move, this isnt the 1890s anymore!
2006-06-11 09:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by lizarddd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋