Hi. the story goes like this.
I am an indian girl.
my ex boyfriend played an emotional drama with me for 4 days enacting that he was dead, with the help of his sister and friends. when i came to know the truth, he got my best friend's pregnancy reports and physically abused me and also blackmailed me not to tell my current boyfriend about my previous relationship.
but i had already told my current boyfriend about ex and also about his death.
after the phycal mishandling, i kept quite about all this that i was blackmailed and that he is not dead.
My current borfriend got to know that my ex was alive. on repeated asking i told him why i kept mumb. he did not believe me when i said that i got scared as my best friend had got pregnant thrice. he finally dumped me.
i asked my best friend to help me by telling my boyfriend that its a truth but she didn't help. instead now my boyfriend n my best friend are best friends.
its been a year now, but i have not been able to forget him.
2006-06-11 09:08:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well one you should have told him everything from the start. two if he doesn't believe you then you can't do anything about it because no matter what you do or say you can't make him believe you. so all you can do it move on and forget about him.
2006-06-11 09:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by sweet heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u havent forgot him because u choose not to. i have ex's that i think about and what could of been if i was still with them but its like thinking about winning the lottery. u need to just try to find someone and not compare them to the ex give them a chance and you will find someone who will be better than the one you can forget and once that happens u wont be thinking about them no more.
2006-06-11 09:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by cobra42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats you being a indian girl got anything to do with it? sounds like it was a big mess.you should have told the whole truth , no matter the out come.
2006-06-11 09:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by purple 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are relay crewed up! Go on with your life. Stop the lying! Stop the game's! Let the mess take care of itself. You get into it again will only make thing's worse. Let it really die.
2006-06-11 09:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-15 02:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are indian in which city ? your matter i not understand it is complicated ,but relax and be cool ,if your bf dump you then you also dump him too , it is useless to think like this boyfirend ,i am indian too , friendship if you like ,ok.
2006-06-11 09:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by handsum025 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be talkign to a therapist about all of this cause it seems really intense.
2006-06-11 09:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he gets what he deserve,it is not your fault,you just have to do whats best for you,people dont play games like that hurting someone you love,,
2006-06-25 07:48:41 · answer #8 · answered by ragsdee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sice it has been a year, try to relax! there are lot of other people in this world. don't think that he is your life. let him go.
2006-06-12 21:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by mspentinum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to meet new friends...the ones you mentioned ALL suck!!
2006-06-11 09:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by vickififi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋