Long distance relationship?

Question

My bf is leaving for college. The school is about an hour and a half away. I feel sad because I know I want to be continue this relationship but he says he doesnt know. We decided to talk about this at the end of the summer. I dont knoe what to do or what to think anymore. He said that he was bad w/ long distance relationship but so far, I am his best gf ( that s what he said also)

1hour and a half drive, is it even long enough to part 2 hearts?? ( I dont have a car, he does)

Answer 1

hmmmm....long distance relationship seems a problem to everyone who hears about it but its not wat everyone else feels that matters but its what you feel about the relationship and definetely, ure very into that guy by the last question u wrote----1 and a half drive, is it even long enough to part 2 hearts??
A relationship is something that both the people should be interested in and make a commitment and if its a one-sided thing, its not a relationship...ofcourse, u might be the best girl in his life but its not the matter of how good you are that matters here, it matters as to wat the consequences are going to be wen u are the only one caring about the relationship at this point. U dont want to end up heart-broken after a few days...
When you're in a relationship, you SHOULD be confident and comfortable to talk to the other person about anything that's bothering you and now, if this is bothering you, go up to him and ask him if he's interested to continue this and dont let the answer be 'I DONT KNOW' coz that only leaves you with more questions...be ready to face any kind of answer; be strong if u get a negative answer and think that theres a better person out there for you...
and yes, you're right---1 and a half hour drive shouldnt part two hearts......
long distance is going to work-----but both of u have to be equally interested in maintaining it....
good luck...be ready to face the reality no matter which way it goes.....

Answer 2

Long Distance relationship is one of the hardest thing to maintain. I was in a relationship like this one before and it would be fine for the moment but not for long.
As for you, when you asked your bf if he wants to continue the relatioinship, he said He does not know, he his honest with you. It is harder to say yes lets continue it and then you would espect him to do this and that becasue you are in long distance relationship, and eventually he wont be able to do what you expect him to do, beside your bf already said he is BAD with long distance relationship. So from that angle , I already know that eventually even if you hang to it, you will go separate ways.. I am sorry to say that but that is the truth. So it would be best to somehoe condition yourself to the fact that you are going separate ways .
Let him finish his college and you do thesame ... we never can tell , if you guys are meant to be together, no matter what it will be you and him but if not, then it was not meant to be.
sometimes it is hard to accept what life has to offer, and most of the time we are noy in control of it either.Reality bites, but there is a a so called a time for every season and also a reason for every season.. Just enjoy while the magic is there, live each day as it comes, and learn to love yourself too. Sometimes when we are in a relationship we forget about ourselves instead we give more time to our partners, well now is the time to give more time to yourself and see what you can accomplish by being apart... and you will never know the end of this till it starts... Hang in there there is more to life then what meets the eye....take care now..

Answer 3

The distance doesn't matter, its the fact that your bf is saying that he doesn't know. Especially since he's going to college, he probably wants to feel that he's going to be open to experiencing everything college has to offer without having to worry about how it affects someone else, especially someone he cares for.

You known that expression" if you love something set it free?" It applies here. If you are meant to be together it will work out that way. If you try to hold onto him he might end up resenting you. Let him go, and he'll think of you as someone who truly wants the best for him...and he'll look forward to seeing you whenever he comes home. And who knows? He may decide that he doesn't want to lose you, especially if its clear that you're not going to be sitting around waiting for him.