I'm 15 I turn 16 next week and my boyfriend is leaving. I've known him for 2 1/2 weeks. he said that we should have sex tonight at his house. WIth NO preservatives. he's 20 ys old.
Should I do it?
2006-06-11 08:34:50 · 28 answers · asked by clariis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
isnt that rape where you live? oh to answer your question, 2 weeks? yeah right, he's a fool.
2006-06-11 08:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by ctbeatsoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nooooo way.
A) 16 is too young
B) There are so many risks involved with unprotected sex
C) You've only known him for 2 1/2 weeks
D) Although 4 years isn't that big of a difference in the long run, there is a big difference between 16 and 20
2006-06-11 15:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Eni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Why start something with someone who is on his way out of town...and get pregnant or a disease?! Think about it: a 20 year old is trying to seduce a 15 year old. If he were a man worthy enough for you, he'd be with someone his own age. Instead, since he can't get it with anyone else, he targets someone who can't say no. The sooner you learn how to set your sights on higher ground, the farther you can accomplish things in life. Don't wait until you are 40 with three kids from 3 different men to realise that you are worth something. Get involved with positive school activities and wait until you are old enough to make a conscious decision. Life is about choices. Your choice tonight might make you regret it for a long time...
2006-06-11 15:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by magnamamma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all i have to say is DON"T DO IT okey, well sex is not love and you can't use that to prove that u love him.
So you better do the right thing which is allow him go; i guess his not for you, a better person that truelly love you would ask you out after he has left you.
Well by the Law, having sex with a 16 year old is a Rape case okey. And don't try to go to his house again, cos he would try to force you if you don't accept having sex with him, so e careful.
Try to talk this with an elderly one that you really trust so much or even your Mother too
2006-06-11 15:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Oshoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No preservatives, means that hes definately using you, and you have only known him for 2 and 1/2 weeks !!
i say NEVER
2006-06-12 00:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have sex yet!! Soon when you will regret having sex at 16!!! Plus a 20 year old guy.. leaving in two weeks yeah right all he wants is the sex.
2006-06-11 15:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are ready to be stuck raising a baby!! Think about it he takes off and you get to have all the work!, DON'T DO IT! 16 is too young you will lose the best years of your life! Don't even go there, stay at home!
2006-06-11 15:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not do it.
For one if he is 20 yrs old it is considered to be statutory rape.
Two, if you have to get on Y answers and ask you are definitely not ready.
Three, if he truly loves you he will wait for you.
Take it from a man that has been there. Your just a piece of A$$ for him and he will forget all about you once he's gone. NO MATTER WHAT HE TELLS YOU.
2006-06-11 15:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by railcar_exp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy! No way! I wouldn't do it and you shouldn't either. Your 15 1/2 do you realize what you are putting yourself into? With all the std's in the world today and teen pregnancy you've got to be kidding me. You're a kid/teen - be a kid! Have fun - why worry about sex!
2006-06-11 15:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by kaije03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you like the idea of having diseases and babies without fathers or having to go on welfare when your folks kick you out. Sex is only for those ready to deal with the consequences. How will you support a baby? Do you really want herpes or hepatitis?
2006-06-11 15:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by webfly2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not considering the legality of the situation, if you believe that you are, then thats your desision, altho personaly, if youve only known him for 2 1/2 weeks, I wouldnt (dont think its long enough)
2006-06-11 15:38:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋