theres this guy who is very cute and i like him but he likes someone else what should i do
2006-06-11 08:30:48 · 23 answers · asked by victoria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't be in love "with" someone unless they love you. You can think you are in love with him, but you are not. If you think you are in love with someone and that someone is not in love with you then you need to actually take the time and discover what it means to be in love. You obviously have a computer so do some research about love relationships and you will find that being in love is more than simply what you feel for a person. It involves elements of an interpersonal relationship with someone of the opposite gender. Being in love with someone is so simple that most people don't get it. Instead they complicate it with all of the details of their own proud ideals, which really have little to do with being in love. Anyone, myself included, who ever got his/her heart broken got it broken by failing to see someone else for who they really are. In essence we break our own hearts and then blame someone else because they didn't behave the way we wanted them to. Real love is unconditional and is it's own reward. When and if you discover for yourself what I am telling you, then you will realize that love is everywhere all of the time and you can share it with many people and it never runs out. Remember, love doesn't hurt.
2006-06-11 08:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by brad 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I have been there two times so far. It goes like everything else. You just hold on to whatever portion of sanity you have left, or you can grip to and it will pass. I used to give my pillow a good wash every single night. I wish I knew what to do in such cases. All I did was crying over spilled milk and giving a good vent for my emotions. I ran to every friend of mine and made good use of their shoulders. I would not assume it helped that much, but as time goes by and as you meet other guys, I sometimes think what an idiot I have been to love these two. The market has better goods. Perhaps you should try to get yourself accustomed to the fact that he is not yours. I am sorry I can't really help but pray God would save you from a heartbreak.
2006-06-11 15:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Scented Showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It needs two hands to clap. So do to falling in love with someone. U need a response from another party to activate the positive feeling. However, if U did not receive the response, U could be falling in love with the wrong guy. To love someone does not necessarily be because of his/her good looking or wealthy or any other reasons. It should be from the fonder heart. As poem says: Don't look for beauty nor the colour of the skin, Look for the heart that's fonder within, Beauty may fade, and skin may turns old, But the heart that's fonder, will never turns old.
2006-06-11 15:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by abta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I know that it really hurts you rather badly. But you will be able to continue to function and fall in love again with another and another until you find your Mr. Right. And you must remember to never allow someone to use you or hurt you or punish you, because of what you may think love is, for love is like the clouds and even they come in many different shapes, form and colors.
2006-06-11 15:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same situation many times before. The best thing to do is to get off of him, become his friend mabey, but really, just drop it, hes obviously not very smart in likeing another chick when theres a very nice one who wants him.
2006-06-11 15:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U Love Something, Set it Free....
If it Comes Back to U, It is Yours...
If it Does'nt, It Never Was.....
If Your Love is true.... Stay Patient... Carry on With your Work..
Dont Think about... Time Will Prove Your Love... He will be yours!
2006-06-11 15:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ajay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmmmmm dont waste ur time and energy , if possible switch on to other guy but before that express ur feelings towards him , propose him , see if he is really interested in u or not if yes then its good 4 u and if no switch on to some other good guy who will be interested in u , anyways , take care , God bless u ! & yes it have been with me also manny a times i liked some 1 but that persone didnt like me , so i also forgot it , its to frogtet such things and move on in life .
2006-06-11 15:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by ickon2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in that stupid situation right now, and trust me, he says he likes me, but he's still not over his ex who cheated on him. Tell me if that isn't pathethic. I'm totally ready to be wifey material, and he says he needs time to think things through. So what did I do? I got myself another man....yes I did. N TOTALLY HOT!!!!!!!!!! and way better than this idiot that i'm in love with. I know eventually i'll get over it, and this new hot guy is all over me!! Yeah and thats the way its suppose to be.
2006-06-11 15:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Girlwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him go because if he likes someone else then there is nothing you can do. just be friends with him and then maybe he will start to like you in time but he may not ever.
maybe this will help you, because it has helped me a little.
good luck
2006-06-11 15:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by sweet heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to love.
2006-06-11 15:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋