I met her through my work at a language school for foreigners in Italy. I'm much older than she is, though she is so mature that at first I thought she was 20 or so. We chat now and then and she always flashes a smile and waves when she sees me, though no more than that ever happens. The other day we met at a party the school was giving and she was calling my attention to herself. Instinct told me to tell her she was very pretty (and she was, with a short dress, a sash around her waist and ballet shoes), but a voice inside me told me not to say anything, because I didn't want her to get the wrong idea and I didn't want her to think I fancied her. While I admire beauty at any age from 8 to 80, and am always friendly and polite, I'm a bit uneasy about this. Experience tells me lots of girls like older men for their first experiments, but I'm not available for that sort of thing. After all, I could be her father. Can anyone suggest something?
2006-06-11 08:21:23 · 4 answers · asked by Richard III 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is normal for older guys to think this way about younger girls. But you went with your instinct and that was great. Dont purse anything just keep your thoughts to yourself.
2006-06-11 08:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paying a compliment to anyone regardless of age would more than likely be viewed as that to the receiver as long as the compliment is said the right way and without going over board. You're an adult so you should know what's appropriate or not to say.
2006-06-11 08:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not anything simply be your self and rather first-rate :) pay for her and if she insits take the cash and slip it into her again pocket while shes no longer paying awareness. simply adorable matters like that :) dont purchase her whatever considering that it sort of feels to desprerate
2016-09-08 23:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is kind of creepy.
2006-06-11 08:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋